How can I just be myself? and talk to a friend, since I got none? (except for the personnel of the streets) How can I overcome situations? I tried before and didn't work. I tried activities, but activities alone is not fun. I must admit that loneliness tends to make you wiseman. I don't want to tell you what my problem is, but I will tell you that I'm here stuck in a root and I don't care (but I care, that's why I'm asking you all)
2006-07-19 11:33:53 · 10 answers · asked by tenndev 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do they walk away from me? But to the mayority of you: thanks for your answers.
2006-07-20 04:34:48 · update #1
Sometimes its hard to make friends - just make acquaintances instead.
ALWAYS be yourself. If someone doesn't like the way you are, then they shouldn't be part of your life anyway.
Just smile at someone and ask how their day is going, if they reply keep the conversation up from there, if not, move on to the next person.
2006-07-19 11:42:06 · answer #1 · answered by NyceGyrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to me it sounds like the classic case of abusive or very strict parents that you have been sheltering yourself from all this time. You may not think your sheltering yourself but sometimes and somehow you are. Trust me on one thing also you dont become a wiseman by sitting on your *** and observing ok you learn some things but obviously not enough because your in a rutt. Now iam going to tell you the horrible truth friends are overated and usually dont last, you gotta get to know someone, you gotta talk to people, you have to go out, all easy things. Basically you just need to say screw this and iam sick of it and do something. iam available through my email if you have any questions.
2006-07-19 18:40:28 · answer #2 · answered by bibby6914 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I honestly can't tell you how to act or what to do. This is your life. You are in charge of it. If you need to talk to someone than reply. But I can only be a friend cuz that's what you asked for. Everyone gets stuck sooner or later. I got begger problems than you but I'm trying to work them out. Instead of pondering the question how, ask yourself "Why?"
2006-07-19 18:40:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would say first thing is online find people near u to talk to and eventually hang out with. or if u have any siblings talk to friends of ur siblings, and if that don't help try goin out to places and tryin to make friends, and the best way to approch a person is do it slow and start the conversation with a respectable question. if that doesn't work then i don't know what else to tell u sry.
2006-07-19 18:39:29 · answer #4 · answered by mochachinalatte18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the person is your true friend, you can talk about anything and work together on anything. I understand about not having friends. I do have couple but my best friend is over 2000 miles away. I have my family but when you really need someone---I turn to jesus and my minister. Hope I helped you out.
God Bless
2006-07-24 18:33:57 · answer #5 · answered by just me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going to a gym that is a good place to make friends and it is healthy for you. Also look in your local paper for social functions like bands playing music or festivals. Go to them be out going when you are standing in line just strike up a conversation with someone next to you.
2006-07-19 18:39:24 · answer #6 · answered by Knock Knock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn’t kind of weird that as a child it’s called, “shy.” As an adult it’s called emotional issues?
2006-07-19 18:38:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try MySpace.com or go to a singles bar.
2006-07-19 18:36:15 · answer #8 · answered by nolyad69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to me, JON STAR and you will be capeable of anything.
2006-07-19 18:36:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll be your friend. email me!
2006-07-19 18:39:15 · answer #10 · answered by ivehadit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋