we stopped having sex with my husband for a while, say for 3 years or so .. cause he's got diabetics.
And now he's going for that other woman in the nursing house and doesn't even bother to deny it.. What should I do is he dies on viagra or something?
2006-07-19 11:15:10 · 21 answers · asked by The Moderator 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
YOU HORNY DEVIL!...
Jealous aren't you???
You should have thought about it when you quit sex with him..
Feeling itchy? the horns on your head??
BRAVO FOR YOUR HUBBY... go.. go.. go...
2006-07-19 11:38:32 · answer #1 · answered by Roland 6 · 4⤊ 2⤋
The answer is no, it isn't. He is 65 and too old to be acting like this. Number 1, he is married and there are responsibilities that go along with that. Number 2, saying that it's ok after 65 is like saying it's ok to murder someone because you have a really good reason and they deserve it. There is never, ever a situation where it is ok.
You should appeal to the side of him that loves you, if it still exists (and I doubt it does if he is blatant in his pursuit of sex with another woman despite how it makes you feel). If he wants to stay married to you, then he has to give her up. If he refuses, then that is about the only time you will ever hear me say that a divorce is in order. He has obviously disregarded the marraige vows and is clear violation from both an ethical stand point and a religious one (and since word agreements can be considered verbal contracts, possibly even legal violations).
Claim what is rightfully yours in the physical, which is him, or take what is rightfully yours in the financial. Then he can have her all he wants and you will be free to find someone who truly appreciates you.
I am so sorry you are having to deal with something so childish at this stage of your life. You deserve better from him...
2006-07-19 18:27:04 · answer #2 · answered by Choose Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Collect his social security/pension. Well, now since he using Viagra you and him can discover each other again. Then you would not have to worry about that other woman in the nursing home.
2006-07-19 18:18:04 · answer #3 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man wants more sex before he dies because it was the best thing he ever had. I just knew those "nursing homes" were full of party animals!
2006-07-19 18:20:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world did you quit having sex? Diabetics are not going to die from it and if they do, they'll die happy. What did you expect him to do? Men don't lose their sexual desire. Now you've set him on a course that will be hard to reverse, if you can. I'd sure change my attitude in a hurry and go out and buy some sexy lingerie.
2006-07-19 18:18:43 · answer #5 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is having sex with someone else in the nursing home why cant you just go to the nursing home and have sex with him??? Wouldnt that stop the cheating? If not then I say divorce his horny ole butt!!!
2006-07-19 18:18:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to put your man in check. meaning you need to let him know what he needs to do. He married you till the end. I don't care if your 99 + years old get back into bed with your husband. It wont hurt him it might even make him better! I would say get yourself a cute make over. you know a different hair dye maybe new perfume and get your man back.
2006-07-19 18:19:27 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs.SoFine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After being married at that age... it's worse than anything. Take away his walker and ensure. Let him have cake and viagra... and nothing else.
2006-07-19 18:18:54 · answer #8 · answered by MorningGlory's Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is not being faithful, then u tell him where to go even if he is over 65. i would get on with my life, enjoy my life and get separated from him. he does not respect the years u spent together, and he does not respect u either.
2006-07-19 18:19:51 · answer #9 · answered by kessia_98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Collect the insurance.
No it's not understandable and I deeply regret your pain. Tough decision but, it seems that he already made it for you. Are you going to stay in denial, or are you going to address the issue?
2006-07-19 18:19:44 · answer #10 · answered by Wise ol' owl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him...it is his choice. Frankly, I would deal with my own life and get on with what I wanted to do without giving much thought to what the hell the idiot does.
2006-07-19 18:20:38 · answer #11 · answered by jodie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋