I got into a fender bender last week and was hit in the rear. There was some damage to the back of my car. Turns out the guilty party was the woman of my dreams! It was obviously her fault for causing the accident. However after talking, it occurred to me that we seemed to have a lot in common. We exchanged some information and she said she'd come to where I live to take care of the rest of it. I'm seriously considering asking her on a date. She is definitely single. Is it appropriate to ask her out once business is taken care of?
2006-07-19 11:10:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her out!
good luck!
2006-07-19 11:13:01 · answer #1 · answered by irena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was she drunk at the time of the collision? Was she properly insured? If no to the first and yes to the latter I'd say go for it. You may consider obtaining a copy of her driving record from the DMV before becoming too deeply involved. And it's probably a good rule to wait until after the business end of things has concluded.
Who knows, maybe she got your attention in the only way she knew how. Hey, good men are hard to find these days! Just think, if this were to work out between you two you'll have such a great answer to the ever popular question "so, how did you two meet?"
Best of luck and safe driving to you both!
2006-07-19 11:19:08 · answer #2 · answered by wibbsite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course its ok, people meet people all the time on accident, how do you know that this isnt what you would probably call fate. and this is the person you are ment to be with. i think you should ask her out and see where that goes, i mean who knows see what happens, you may not like her after the first date. then again you might end up married with a slew full of kids. but in any case you will always regret not doing any thing at all, because you will always wonder..
2006-07-19 11:22:30 · answer #3 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definately ask her out for a drink dude!,, the best relationships start from out of the blue meetings,,, i find anyways,,,
i met my girl while we were stopped waiting for a train,,, and these trains take a really long time, i saw her next to me and smiled,, then she did,, rolled down the windows, and started talkin,,,, badaboom, badabing, 6 months later,,, its going amazing,,, the most creative way ive heard of is,,, this guy had 2 cell phones,, and at a stop light threw 1 in through her window,,, called it and set a date up,,, very risky,,but they dated for a while...
2006-07-19 11:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by chrisastra09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, AFTER the business is taken care of and only then.
2006-07-19 11:14:54 · answer #5 · answered by Wise ol' owl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL. The same thing happened to me too, but I refused to go out with the guy. He was a negligent person in driving, so it was reasonably presumed that he was negligent in dating too.
2006-07-19 11:14:25 · answer #6 · answered by Kat 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes ask her she is probably thinking the same thing you are
2006-07-19 11:24:04 · answer #7 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date her.
Just don't let her drive your car.
2006-07-19 11:12:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what you are saying is she rear ended you and now you want to rear end her.....right?
2006-07-19 11:12:59 · answer #9 · answered by fflover_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date her, everyone makes mistakes...:)
2006-07-19 11:14:23 · answer #10 · answered by mzpinkerton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋