we dated for 3 years, broke up with the intentions of getting back together, but he ended up kissing someone else during this 2 month period. this is fine, except he lied about it for one month after we got back together. i broke up with him ONLY for lying, not the kiss, but this isn't the first time he has lied. i've been so loyal, and i've actually never ever kissed anybody else. what if i kiss someone else? is that just low or is it revenge with a purpose? could it work? GUYS- what do you think?
2006-07-19 11:10:17 · 7 answers · asked by sugar56 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a guy. Two wrongs never make a right. Never lower yourself to another persons standards. If you don't like being lied to, don't do it yourself.
I caught my wife with another man, I refused to do the same.
2006-07-19 11:19:48 · answer #1 · answered by Richard S. Perry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you broke up with him because of the kiss and dont want to admit it to anyone that you are jealous. and the reason that i believe that is because you said if i kiss someone, you gave youself away you are either going to forgive the guy or your not you are the one who has to decide if you can get over it or not it was only a kiss good grief. and you both were broken up just because you didnt doesnt mean that you couldnt have if you found the oppurtunity. i dont think he should of lied to you about it but no one and i mean no one is 100% honest about every thing get over it.......and grow up.....
2006-07-19 18:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It won't work. He probably isn't bothered by it as much as you are.
And how would becoming a liar yourself teach him anything other than that you think that it is O.K. to lie (since you did it too)?
Indirect communication never works with guys (we don't get hints). If you want him to know that he hurt you, then what is wrong with simply telling him?
2006-07-19 18:16:58 · answer #3 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't really care about whom you kiss with anymore. You will have more bad feeling if u do this. Be mature and at least you understand that you have learned a big lesson.
2006-07-19 18:18:46 · answer #4 · answered by abc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg that sucks sounds like you need to lie to him tell him that you kissed someone else .if u have a good guy friend he'll understand and just ask him if he'll go along with it try it it may work
2006-07-19 18:15:10 · answer #5 · answered by brokenheart235 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is never the answer. In trying to hurt him, you're just hurting yourself or the one you're using to get back at your bf.
2006-07-19 18:14:56 · answer #6 · answered by FaithinJude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,it'll just make things worse.Grow up.
2006-07-19 18:15:39 · answer #7 · answered by Troy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋