this is no big shock to anyone but when i look around at the people i know and associate myself with everyone has had sex. and they usually arent very nice to me when they find out that i am 20yrs old and still happy with being a virgin. they make fun of me, tell others, treat me like a child, and laugh and joke about me and sex even though i am obviously uncomfortable. why is this so funny? why do people try to "corrupt" me when they find out? am i the only proud virgin left on the palnet?
2006-07-19 10:57:42 · 18 answers · asked by 2tall 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey Budday. I just wanted to let you know that i am very proud of the fact that you are a virgin. I think that it is one of the most honorable things in the world. I just don't want you to be naive to the things that could happen. I want you to be fully aware of the games "little boys" who think they are grown men, play. But I love ya lots.
2006-07-19 14:44:14 · answer #1 · answered by firecracker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a virgin when I got married. It was a private thing for me. I did not feel like that was anyone's business. I am still very happy that I made that decision. My husband is the only person that I have ever had sex with. It's a beautiful thing. People make fun of you & try to corrupt you, because you make them feel guilty for being whores even if they won't admit it. I know that a lot of people who sleep around wish they didn't & feel guilty about it.
2006-07-19 18:02:59 · answer #2 · answered by CDK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably one of very few. But you have something to definitely be proud of. Sex is too abused now a days. And once your virginity is gone you will never be able to get it back. It's very important to give it up the way you want to so that you don't spend the rest of your life regretting the way you lost your virginity like those people who pick on you. And if you're saving it for marriage, your husband will be SOOOO grateful. Be strong girl!!!! (or boy)
2006-07-19 18:06:43 · answer #3 · answered by jennymustafa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not alone. I'm still a virgin and I'm 19 yrs. old and happy. I don't to degrade myself like that in order to have fun or not have people make fun of me. I'm happy with the fact that I have morals and I value my virginity. It's a beautiful thing; and to give it up to the man of your dreams-it's special, because you saved yourself for that special day and special one. I like guys who are virgins too, and then ones who I've met are good looking and you'd think they'd lose it to anyone, but they have *morals and don't want some one night stand, they are romantic and want to give it up to someone special. Remember-virginity is a beautiful thing. I don't like Jessica Simpson (or how the hell you spell it) but she remained a virgin until her wedding night and she married at twenty something-I'm sure any guy would have wanted her to lose it to them, because she's pretty etc. but she also *had morals and did the right thing by waiting (didn't care what ANYONE else thought)-so there you go.
2006-07-19 18:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If that ever happens again, just tell them, "At least I'm not going to die from STDs." and then just peer at them for a long time in an accusing way. That will make *them* feel uncomfortable, and it's the truth. Or you can avoid associating with those type of people altogether. They're not worth your time. They're being pretty childish and slutty themselves.
2006-07-19 18:01:42 · answer #5 · answered by L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, all the rest are ashamed. And it seems like you are too in a way. But what's there to be proud of? You've never been involved in the sticking of someone into someone else. I think religious morality has planted the shame around sex even though biologically we see it as necessary and healthy, independent of marital status.
2006-07-19 18:03:40 · answer #6 · answered by Phil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are jelous, that you have something they don't. Due to them being stupid. Just ignore them, who cares. Word don't hurt. Keep it till you get married, you will see how your husband will see you like a trophy. Well at least a mauture man will see it that way. Because there are some ignarent men out there that say they don't care.....
I'm proud of you.....Not very many get to 20 and are still virgins
2006-07-19 18:04:11 · answer #7 · answered by yo_010180 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being a virgin ! Everyone used to make fun of me too ! I just thought they were really childish and stupid for saying anything . Just ignore them , and no , you are not the only one !
2006-07-19 18:02:33 · answer #8 · answered by sweenygirll 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly Not. I get that all the time I'm 20 something too and still "on the verge". Don't worry about it, there just jealous cause we're still so "pure". We have values. When they laugh at you or make fun just kindly remark that atleast you know you don't have any STD's or AIDS so that's pretty cool.
2006-07-19 18:02:01 · answer #9 · answered by Gia S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you making an issue about sex...and then getting upset when people make an issue about sex? Nobody should be making fun of you. But you may be better served by keeping your business to yourself.
2006-07-19 18:05:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋