why do we(women) like courting danger?

Question

i'm seriously bothered by something i've noticed in most women, not all but most of us.
women claim they want-love, attention, care, trust, Honesty, security, they all want to be appreciated, shown romance(yáll know what i'm talkin about) etc but then given options between dating a good guy(you know the kind of guys, sweet, honest, kind, thoughtful, gives you the kind of attention you want and even more,in other words, the boring kind of guy! do i need to go on?) and the bad boy type(charming, crazy, fun to be with, drop dead gorgeous, makes your heart miss a beat by just a smile or look(ahhhhhhhhhhh!) kind of guy, you see most women breaking their hearts over the bad boy! why's this?

we all know with the good guy, u get security, u get romance and more, the bad boy type promises he'll call, but while you are waiting for his call, he's out breaking another girl's heart, while the good guy calls and checks up on you every minute to know if his "angel" is ok! my God! this bugs me bad and i want to know because i think i've got that ailment too, u know the type of ailment u have when you're craving for a snack, u've got all kinds of fruits in your fridge but you just got to have that bar of bounty or mars, knowin that the fruits will be of more good to your health than the chocolate bar! whats wrong with us? do you think its a sickness in our minds ? that in a sick way, we crave punishment?

Answer 1

Women think a good guy is boring period. The more we can figure out a way to put you on that emotional roller coaster ride at young ages then your in. Typically guys that will end hp in Jail shot or dead do that for you. As women mature they move out of this phase. Who wants a father to teach his son how to be dis honest, disrespectful and show him how to end up alone. What your dealing with is Maturity, Immature women want Jerks. That doens't mean Nice guys is something you have to settle for. Men are Men, some of us start of nice and level out to normal. I struggled with what your talking about for a shile until I met a girl that wanted me that I wasn't into. Suddenly Mr. Good guy is blowing someone off who wants to give me everything. But I wasn't interested in her so it was easy. Just got to find that balance, you meet some one you want and they want you and it's not a game or a turn off once you get what you want. Growing up sucks.

Answer 2

I always tend to go for the good guy 1st, but then its like a total 360, then he changes into this a*****e. I have dated the "bad boy type" and it wasn't for me, too much drama all the damn time!!!! It seems like for me, they seem like good guys on the outside but on the inside they are not!!!! I guess I want both sides sometimes though, someone fun and dangerous but still has a sweet heart and will respect me. You don't want someone completely boring, good or bad, thats just not fun at all!!!!

Answer 3

Bad boys are more fun until you are ready to settle down. They keep things more fun! So therefore we stay with the bad boy because we like the attention, cause we all are attention hoes! And we all like the attention from the cute bad boy!