I have been in love before, but this man hurt me so badly that I feel like I will never be able to love again. He kinda ruined for all the nice guys out there. Everytime I meet a nice guy I think it's too good to be true and they must have an evil side that will ruin the relationship.
2006-07-19 10:32:25 · 7 answers · asked by curleysue272000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Live for today. Tomorrow will take care of itself and yesterday is history. Its a mind set. You have to reprogram your thinking. Life is to live, and to cut out a essential emotion as love would be very sad, and lonely. Prepare your self for the gamble. Have a back up plan, in case a new relationship didn't work out. But prepare to give it your all so that it will work out. Chemistry is all about seduction. The relationship is give and take, live and learn, and fight and conquer. This is the foundation for a good, healthy, and the longevity of any relationship. We all have traits about our self's that others would not even consider if they looked for them and not past them. The good usually out weights the bad. But if you stop at the bad, you will never find this out. To love again, after being hurt so badly is a battle. But triumph will be your victory, if you continue the hunt.
2006-07-20 04:44:05 · answer #1 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way because of my soon to be ex husband but you just have to open up your heart and trust yourself again and take a chance or you will be alone forever. Be more cautious to warning signs don't let love blind you like I did. When you do meet someone and fall in love you won't be able to stop it even if you want to. Be patient the right man will show you what love really is.
2006-07-23 06:17:57 · answer #2 · answered by JustWant2B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a pretty tricky question. First off, you have to realize that there is a chemical reaction that occurs inside of you when you first meet someone your attracted to. This chemical reaction is a type of natural high that gradually fades over time. So to know your really in love you have to look beyond that initial chemical reaction/lust and see if there is a real foundation for a lasting relationship. Can you really imagine being able to be with this person even when that initial chemical reaction fades, are they someone you know you can be mad at and still love and vice versa, can you really trust this person with your life, can you give them your love completely?
2006-07-19 10:38:49 · answer #3 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To truly find true love you have to take risk even thow you have been hurt before. Get up, dust yourself off and try again just take it slow. When you do fall in love you just know you feel it in your heart.
2006-07-22 10:20:53 · answer #4 · answered by curiousgeorgina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand where your coming from but you have to take a chance you should know by meeting them once what they are like keep eye contact and search those eyes youl find it good luck
2006-07-19 16:40:40 · answer #5 · answered by silver scales 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean been there. it's hard to say but when you fall in love again you will know.
2006-07-19 10:43:08 · answer #6 · answered by richiesluv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no gal actually this is physics
2006-07-19 10:41:59 · answer #7 · answered by aks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋