Last night a web browser open to myspace.com was open on my laptop that my boyfriend was using. When I walked over he closed it. I was like, "why'd you close that" he said "oh, your brother must have been on myspace, so I closed it for him" I was like "ok". But today, I checked on his myspace page and he was on last night at that time, and left a message for a girl that i don't know. It was an innocent message, so why would he lie about it?
2006-07-19 10:27:58 · 31 answers · asked by kari 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's lying because he's guilty of it. He's not going to simply come out and say that he left a message for another girl, even if it was an innocent one. I would keep checking up on this page and be on the lookout. If he has to lie to you and sneak around like this then it's not a good thing. Catch him further on something and then you can be sure whether he was no good for you after all.
2006-07-19 10:36:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well are you the jealous type? If you are, he proabably thought that u'd still get mad even if he explained that it was just an innocent message he was sending to a girl. Now, if you arent the jealous type..then something might be going on or else he would've been comfortable letting you see what he was doing and the message. I wouldnt dump him just yet, I would just bring this up to him and see what he says. If he's got some stupid excuse well then i say forget about it for now..but def keep an eye on him..just to make sure he isnt doing stuff behind your back.
2006-07-19 17:31:04 · answer #2 · answered by scrazygirl25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you tell him you found out, or you dont - and keep watching him. If you tell him, you can end up having a good dialogue about your relationship. What you expect from each other, what not to expect. What you like and axept and what you dont. Or you keep watching him, increasing your suspition and mistrust - checking on his computer every day if this relationship goes on or not.
For every day that pass, you will need to do one of these things. I think that chosing the first option will be the best for both of you. An honest and good talk. No accusing, just talking - how will your relationship be, what do you want on each part...
Good luck
2006-07-19 17:32:50 · answer #3 · answered by Tones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because his actions aren't innocent.
He was telling you that by the way he reacted.
If he's acting guilty or lying already, then he's feeling guilty - he may not do anything but he's thought about it.
Sometimes people need a little harmless flirting which can be fine.
They need to feel that even within a relationship there is a part of themselves or their life that is just theirs - not their partners.
2006-07-19 17:36:40 · answer #4 · answered by audeo8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men always lie about stuff like that. It's one of lifes little mysteries. I wouldn't dump him over it. Just quit spying over his shoulder and logging into his myspace page. If he finds out he'll think you're nuts.
2006-07-19 17:31:34 · answer #5 · answered by akc1106 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was innocent and he wasn't cheating on you it's probabaly because he didn't want you to get jealous. Whether you admit it or not women are very, very insecure about just about everything. He probaably didn't want you to think something was going on when there wasn't. Don't be too hard on him. He may have just been trying to avoid a needless fight over nothing.
2006-07-19 17:34:11 · answer #6 · answered by big_dog832001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok disregard phil ur bf probly is pulling something just watch him when you go to his house ask if u can use his comp look through his history when he's not paying attention and find out whats going on and watch the girls myspace page too!!
2006-07-19 17:31:01 · answer #7 · answered by alex h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And that is how a untrusting relationship starts......
He isnt a very trusting guy because he is not keeping you in the "open" relationship and you are not trusting because you are feeling insecure. Sit and talk with each other before it gets out of control......
2006-07-19 17:36:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AS long as this is the first time he's done something like that, it's okay. If it seems like he's been hiding things a lot, then you've got a problem.
2006-07-19 17:33:01 · answer #9 · answered by Elven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be the suspicious GF. what i mean is dont accuse him of anything, you should ask, but only give information that you 'have' meaning , will he be mad if he dound out you went on his account and looked at his messages?
2006-07-19 17:30:06 · answer #10 · answered by Zero C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋