I've known this person since we were in 5th grade. We also went to highschool together for most our years. She's abit strange (gothic kinda) and I'm not and she's quite shy. Not sure if that matters at all, but I myself am a VERY shy person as well. I've only dated twice and I can't see myself with anyone else but with this girl.
She means more to me than she could ever guess, but we've been friends for a while now, but we don't see eachother anymore since Highschool, but chat once in a blue moon online.
What should I do? Should I tell her how I feel, or have I passed that point and should I forget about her? I can't see doing that, but please, any suggestions would help.
-Thanks
Brandon
2006-07-19 10:24:20 · 2 answers · asked by brandonedbishop 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Brandon you need to contact this girl and tell her how you feel. If you don't you will never know if you two could have had a life together. If your feelings are the same after so many years you obviously have strong feelings for her. You do not need to spend the rest of your life wondering "what if" let her know. If she says she does not feel the same at least you will know how she feels and you can begin moving on if she feels the same then you can have a life with her. So many times in love nothing happens or changes unless we take a chance.
2006-07-19 10:40:12 · answer #1 · answered by strawberries 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out on a non-date. You know, just hang out. You have to make sure that your feels are still strong for her before you give her your heart. Be honest to her and yourself. Chances are, if she was your friend for all those years, she probably deeply cares for you, and there is a very good chance of it working out. Whatever you do, don't ignore your feelings, other wise you'll forever be asking "what if?" Best of luck to you.
2006-07-20 01:19:41 · answer #2 · answered by Ophelia193 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋