i recently broke upp with my bf. and now hes going out with one of my friends. im starting to get jealous... i never knew i would miss him this much. he told me he still reallyy likes me. but hes alreadyy with my friend. i think hes planning to go out with me while hes still with my friend. i mean i want to be with him, but i dont want him to cheat on my friend with me... im not reallyy suree on what to do.. pleeease? help?!
2006-07-19 10:24:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
baby girl. i'm sure the friendship is more important than him. like the cliche says, never let a man comes in between friendship. be happy for her and your ex. let him go.
2006-07-19 10:29:46 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When in doubt follow your instincts. You know what the right thing to do is. You really don't need my advice or anyone else's on this site. Let your conscience be your guide. You want to be with this guy, but remember the cost. It will not only cost you your friend, but also your integrity. You also need to consider one other point. If the guy is willing to cheat on his girlfriend to be with you, then what's to keep him from doing the same thing to you if you two end up reuniting. As Dr. Phil says "If they'll do it with you then they'll do it to you."
2006-07-19 17:30:30 · answer #2 · answered by big_dog832001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Occupy your mind with something else and just make it clear if anyone asks that you can't be with him if he belongs to her. If there is something really there with him he'll leave her to come back to you. But don't just take his word for it if he does. Verify it so you don't look like the bad guy. You have all the time in the world to wait and see. If he doesn't come back it wouldn't have worked anyway.
2006-07-19 17:31:28 · answer #3 · answered by Go Rush! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RULE OF FEMINISM #1- DO NOT DATE YOUR FRIENDS EX BOYFRIEND!
SHES A CRAPPY FRIEND TO DATE HIM IN THE FIRST PLACE. YOU SHOULD FORGET ABOUT THEM BOTH. IF YOUR IN HIGH SCHOOL, DONT GIVE HIM THE TIME OF DAY, HE JUST WANTS TO GET IN YOUR PANTS. FIND A GUY THAT TREATS YOU LIKE A QUEEN, AND BELIEVE IT OR NOT, THERE ARE SOME OUT THERE!
GOOD LUCK :)
2006-07-20 15:00:55 · answer #4 · answered by PinkFloMo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...you feel like you really like him b/c you are jealous, which is natural. they say, "you always want what you cant have". but, do you really want to be with someone who found someone else so quickly? maybe hes just doing it do make you jealous, but with your friend??? thats low, and he obviously isn't thinking about your feelings or the awkward position that he just put you in. you will find someone who is better than this...maybe you could help me out with me problem that i just posted?
2006-07-19 17:32:45 · answer #5 · answered by sugar56 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A FRIEND WOULDNT DO THAT **** I MEAN COMMON NOW SHE OBVIOSLY WASNT THINKING OF HOW YOU WOULD FEEL AT THA TIME THAT AINT A TRUE FRIEND SHE SHOULD NO BETTER THAN THAT AND I THINK HE JUST WENT OUT WITH UR FRIEND TO MAKE U JELOUS CUZ HE WANTED U BACK BUT WHAT I WOULD DO IS JUST GO BACK OUT WITH HIM IF YOU REALLY MISS HIM THAT MUCH AND TEACH YOUR FRIEND A LESSON ....SOUNDS KINDA MEAN BUT TRUST ME WHO KNOW'S WHAT SHES DOING B-HIND YOUR BACK MAYBE TAKING ABOUT YOU JUST GO 4 IT. and e-mail me on what happened at aliciaakale123@yahoo.com pleeeaaase.
2006-07-19 18:01:47 · answer #6 · answered by Alicia H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont want him to cheat on her with you!!? F uck that!! If she was your true friend she never would have went out with him. I say sleep with him, tell her, then dump them both!
2006-07-19 17:29:02 · answer #7 · answered by maddirae1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pleeeeeeease just figure out the obvious answer and don't be a whore
2006-07-19 17:28:17 · answer #8 · answered by Phil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is your friend with your ex????? girl if you want your man back take him she shouldnt have got with him in the first place she isnt your firend... go for it.
2006-07-19 17:29:15 · answer #9 · answered by MICHELLY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgive them, but drop both their butts like a hot potato
2006-07-19 17:27:23 · answer #10 · answered by poboyman27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋