2006-07-19 10:21:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Do you think that God intends for you to fight all the time? I would say that an occasional argument is fine, but that it must be done with the idea of resolving the problem.
If an argument degenerates into a "you did this" or "you are that," then it is an unhealthy way to express one's self. Further, no one should have to sit through verbal abuse. It's one thing to discuss behavior. It's entirely another to be belittled.
If you are to break up, then I would take some time to reflect on what went well, and what went wrong in the relationship. Then, after a time, I would look for someone who actually has character, before stepping back into a relationship.
Besides, God has that one person for you. I would ask Him to show you who it is. And while you wait for that man, spend time with Jesus, who loves you more perfectly than any guy on the earth.
2006-07-19 10:28:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Break up, you need to move on and hook up with a player pimp. There will be no fighting because the pimp is in control and you must acquiesce and submit to his requests. You will not fight ever and the pimp will fight for you and protect you. The only thing you have to be concerned about is making him his money. You will have a role and you will enjoy your life and you will be happy forever after.
2006-07-19 10:35:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your making the right choice, fighting with your boyfriend isnt fun i'm sure, i know it's hard to do but it is for the best, find a guy that wont fight with u all the time, it'll work out, hopefully he will understand, fighting isnt fun for anyone. Best of luck, sorry about your boyfriend.
2006-07-19 10:29:12 · answer #3 · answered by tootsie r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am probably the only one to say stay together, because if it was meant to be it will work itself out with a lot of understanding and communication. my boyfriend and i just worked it out last night and we were broken up for 3 weeks and found out we love each other more for giving each other space for a few weeks. if you love him, give it time. don't break up just because you fight, everyone fights. are you going to break up with your parents or siblings or friends just because you get into a fight?
2006-07-19 10:27:06 · answer #4 · answered by carlylatchic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a done deal and you've done everything that you're willing to do to make this work, then you're ready to move on you'll be fine. It'll be lonely for a while and you'll miss him but when it's over it's over. You can't get to the next part of your life until you're finished with this bit.
2006-07-19 10:25:28 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds good, he could be your husband for 60 years fighting your way into old age, what a waste of energy and life.
2006-07-19 10:24:26 · answer #6 · answered by Sue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hippie chick is right... People tend to think about the good times and get back together. Save yourself some grief and think of the bad times when you miss him.
be strong.
2006-07-19 10:27:03 · answer #7 · answered by _aihlie_ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on - nobody should be in a relationship if you fight a lot it isn't fun for anyone.
2006-07-19 10:24:13 · answer #8 · answered by Gone fishin' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are three BILLION men in this world. Why keep trying to bang a square peg into a round hole?
2006-07-19 10:27:00 · answer #9 · answered by Shaun T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be a little more careful in the guy you select to be your next boyfriend.
2006-07-19 10:24:12 · answer #10 · answered by werk2much2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋