He is very friendly and nice to me since I asked him as a child to be my friend and the very next morning he tried to kiss me....I told my husband about it and he said to tell his father to treat you as a daughter....and you feel uncomfortable...I did exectly as my husband told me and this made my father in law hurt. My parents live in a different country and he feels pity for me. He promised he will find some way to get me whatever I wish. But he acts different in front of family (he doesn't talk politely to me) and still kiss on my cheeks and holds my hand....I find it weard and I told him many times that if you think me as a friend then why don't you say it in front of everyone? He said he can't at this point..My husband doesn't know that he holds my hands and kiss my cheeks....I try to avoide as much as possible but stills he does....I am affraid if I tell my husband he will get angry that why I am telling him all this after such a long time...I respect him so much....
2006-07-19 10:01:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
If your father in law's actions make you the least bit uncomfortable, don't allow him to do these things. It sounds like possibly he knows he has stepped over a line, and that is why he behaves differently when people are around.
2006-07-19 10:06:19 · answer #1 · answered by zartsmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your father in law is trying to be slick about putting the moves on you. You need to put it to a stop right away or it will blow up in your face later. Tell your father in law that he's not being smart or responsible and that his son will be really mad if you tell him, so he needs to treat you like a daughter in law and not a chick.
Good luck.
2006-07-19 10:07:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What culture are you from? How is your relationship with your husband? A lot of your sentences are unclear so I don't completely understand the situation.
2006-07-19 10:05:18 · answer #3 · answered by Sara B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you are sinning but your father in law is
tell and stop it
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-07-19 10:06:51 · answer #4 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the 50% divorce fee says "certain, you are able to marry the incorrect human being." regularly you are able to inform you've married the incorrect human being at the same time as each human being round you became attempting to sidestep you from getting married first of all.
2016-11-06 20:32:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR FATHER IN LAW IS NOT THE RIGHT KIND OF PERSON!!!!
2006-07-19 10:08:12 · answer #6 · answered by binaryFusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋