2006-07-19 09:57:34 · 39 answers · asked by Poppy 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
sounds like you worry too much about what other people think and try to overcompensate by being "too nice" sod em be yourself and stop worrying. I know some people dont like me but I like myself so i dont care what they think
2006-07-19 13:31:32 · answer #1 · answered by busted 2 · 10⤊ 0⤋
I used to ask myself the same question about 25 years ago. I also figured out that only I could answer my own question. I started treating people with more respect, for starters. I stopped assuming I knew the answers and started asking questions (but not too many questions). I really started to listen and be more respectful and caring.
By doing this consistently, (showing others I cared by my thoughts and actions,) I felt better about myself, and found people liked me quite a bit more than it appeared to me before.
Helping others is a wonderful way to build your self esteem and others appreciate it too.
Good luck,
m
2006-07-19 10:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they probably don't even like themselves and are putting their lack of self respect your way and doing you down, ignore those sort and get yourself some friends who are true and honest, believe it or not this world does have nice people in it, but the other person who said you gotta like yourself first is right, so get out there and hold those shoulders back and hold your head high, smile and ignore the bad vibes of doubting thomas's.
2006-07-20 04:21:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know... Maybe you haven't been such a good company lately.Maybe you're egocentric or selfish or you just don't care.I don't know you...Maybe you are,infact,a great person,but shy.And some people see that wrong.Maybe you seem a little bit "high-too high to reach" . Maybe you haven't been yourself.Maybe they miss judged you..Who knows... Just be yourself and try to be nice.
2006-07-19 10:08:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound so sad. I'm sure it's not true people don't like you but to me it sounds as though you don't like yourself.
I'm not going to say too much because I don't know you but, if you haven't done so already, get some counselling.
2006-07-19 10:47:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is your delusion and not a fact. If you feel this way you should consider using the services of a professional. By the way, we all like you.
2006-07-19 10:03:01 · answer #6 · answered by ash_m_79 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are a caring and gentle person, you do not need the opinions of others.
Just respect yourself first and people will respect you.
2006-07-19 10:14:01 · answer #7 · answered by cho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you an unhappy person? People tend to veer away from that.
It's unlikely that nobody likes you (unless your real name is George Bush) - it may be that they are unsure of you.
2006-07-19 11:12:04 · answer #8 · answered by Hello Dave 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think people dont like you?
Would you believe someone if they said they did?
Can you think of any good things about yourself that people should like?
2006-07-19 10:06:28 · answer #9 · answered by cate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you tell us about your self a bit more, then maybe we can work out why you think people dont like you.
2006-07-19 10:22:52 · answer #10 · answered by carla_mail03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋