I Please do not answer with the usual yes I am. I have heard this all before. I mean grounded, balanced, not neurotic, sensitive in a strong sense, truthful and supportive.
2006-07-19 09:52:50 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Where do I look.? I look deep within the person. Not nightclubs, pubs etc.
2006-07-19 10:53:35 · update #1
It is often hard to find someone of the opposite sex that matches what you are looking for. I think they are out there because I am one, with many of the qualities that you describe. I'm curious, how you are looking for this single woman......
Myself, I'm not searching too hard, but I do hope someday I find a guy I would like to be with.
Stay positive, that is always attractive in a guy, in my opinion.
2006-07-19 10:01:41 · answer #1 · answered by Cara B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I like to think that I am - my husband could tell you better though I am sure.
I think it is important to treat people reasonably and with respect - and to do what we can to help one another. I think it is behave like a gentleman than to always act like a lady. I work for myself, with my husband, from home, where we raise and homeschool our 2 little girls.
In truth I must say I often feel out of balance with all the demands of life competing with my own desire for peace and relaxation (though I think in the end, when I look back at the big picture, it will likely be balanced) and while i do try to be supportive of my husband and encourage him to do things for himself, I am not always the kindest when we are in the trenches of childcare and financial stress. But I love him very much and we are really perfect together. I would never have tried this crazy stuff with anyone else - he is a rock for me. And HILLARIOUS - oh the laughing we do!
I wish you the same - Peace!
I must add:
Oh no - if you are looking for this person you must believe she is coming. Imagine it. Really see it in your mind. Sure you don't know what she will look like, but you have a pretty good idea of what you would like, right? Write it down - all of it, every single thing. I put is all down, like 50 things: responsible, good looking, tall, family i love or never have to deal with, smoker, likes boardgames, computer literate, a suit, smoker, etc.
I didn't get the smoker - it was 1 of like 3 things on my list that I didn't get, which were probably for the best. Believe, my friend. I wrote my list and found Michael in about 2 months. We met on the birthday shared by our recently passed maternal grandmothers! We were engaged in 2 weeks and married 6 months later. 8 years later we have moved across country and are happy and thriving with 2 little girls.
We get what we expect in this world - make it so!
2006-07-19 10:02:25 · answer #2 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need a wider search base than Yahoo Answers, for a start. Not all women are on it; I guess it's especially unlikely if they're so busy being spiritual and balanced etc. Frankly I don't have time for being balanced...what is balanced? It always makes me think of tightrope walkers or kitchen scales. I think there are a lot lot lot of good women in the world, maybe they just aren't physically what catches your eye? Maybe you just don't notice them. I will prob get shot down in flames for saying this, but possibly very attractive women can afford to be less scrupulous?
2006-07-19 10:17:46 · answer #3 · answered by dorothy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the interesting thing is that i hear this question from a lot of guys (and girls who are looking for guys who are everything that you have described) out there. honestly, the best thing you can do is pray. God knows exactly what a person's heart looks like. so why not trust in the most perfect matchmaker? so ask and then be patient, He will need to bring that person to you....there are a lot of people in this world and it takes quite a bit to orchestrate that meeting. i am a nice girl, but to be completely honest guys don't go for girls like me. they are too preoccupied with the "fun" ones. as someone once told me, you have to do a little bit of searching and looking...not at the people being all loud, but the ones sitting back and watching everyone else. i wish you the best of luck! i'll pray for you tonight!
2006-07-19 10:02:21 · answer #4 · answered by a_ozah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm single, genuine if u mean mannered, decent if u mean i take care of myself, spiritual if u mean believing strongly in god and being faithful to my religion, caring if u mean giving to the poor sharing my life with people who need me and giving all my love to others and thinking of them first, grounded and balanced if u mean on my feet supporting myself, not neurotic if u mean not prone to excessive anxiety or emotional upset, sensitive if u mean in touch with my feelings, truthful if u mean telling u how i feel and exactly what i am thinking without hesitating, and supportive if u mean there for u to fall on there for u to talk to and there for u to cry, laugh, and hang out with,and always there for u for any obstacle in life. because if that's what u mean, then there are some left, and I'm one of them.
2006-07-19 10:38:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somebody sounds really picky. We all want it all but none of us are perfect. Like it or not we all go through sh*t in our lives that bring out some not so desirable sides of us. I'm sure your not perfect. I think a lot of myself but at times can be un-grounded, un-balanced and neurotic. Its all a part of being human.
2006-07-19 09:58:30 · answer #6 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well keep in mind that 90 percent of all women are money hungry sad excuse for human beings .. i mean talk to some of them and they will say ya i don't have girl friends cause there messed up ppl lol
so i would say in a world like today's there is a 10 out of every 100 women are cool the rest are garbage
2006-07-19 09:56:36 · answer #7 · answered by iceman478 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's asking a lot.
And you've also got to ask is there are any single, genuine, decent, spiritual, caring men left in this country?
They're probably all hiding someplace together, waiting for you to find them.
2006-07-19 09:55:58 · answer #8 · answered by POOF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are around, their not sitting on the computer answering questions from people who cant get a date. Join a church group, go for a walk, yahoo personals. Its called being social. It worked for thousands of people before and will continue to work after.....
2006-07-19 09:58:16 · answer #9 · answered by ♠♣♥Rogue♣♥♠ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am all those i can say that with total truthness .
surly there are loads of us lovely ladies out there ?
i am very sensitive to others and balanced and grounded , i am always truthful no matter what the disadvantages may be .
2006-07-19 09:58:39 · answer #10 · answered by j.j. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋