one of my friends has an older brother that i have liked for a while. i keep ignoring it but it wont go away and i dont want to make things weird between my best friend and I.
2006-07-19 09:52:38 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you act on it it will only make things weird with your friend. Talk to you friend see how she is with the idea first. Boys are like buses, there will be another one along in 10 minutes, but friends are for ever.
2006-07-19 09:55:56 · answer #1 · answered by rudytute 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot help who you like.
You dont mention your age or the older brothers age. If you are young, then, I would say its just a crush, you will get over it. Date guys your own age and have fun. If things dont work out with the older brother, could your friendship continue with the best friend?
If you are older, then you should have no problem talking to your best friend about it and all people involved will be able to act like mature adults about the whole thing.
Good Luck
2006-07-19 17:10:40 · answer #2 · answered by Lovely Lioness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's perfectly natural to have a crush on your best friend's brother, and furthermore, I would dare to say it happens to everyone at least once in a lifetime. Don't worry, why would there be anything wrong with that? But depending on the age difference and other things it might make things akward between you and your frinend, so be careful you don't loose a friend over a crush. Good luck
2006-07-19 16:57:41 · answer #3 · answered by brooke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Fuzz :),
Well, if your best friend is a lady and both of you are straight then just tell her that her bro is cute and things like that so that she will pass it on to him and he will notice you for sure and things could build up for good.
But if your pal is a guy and he is in love with you (in some way) and you were okay to have him as a friend then there could be some kinda situation here.
If he/she is a good friend of yours (without the unnecessary feelings) then it would definitely be a great help ...good friends always help if they can, otherwise they are not good friends
2006-07-19 17:04:35 · answer #4 · answered by sans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's not wrong. It's only wrong in terms of where you want to be and what you want to experience. So is it wrong? Probably not, sounds harmless to me. Though maybe it will make things weird between you and your friend. Maybe you should talk to your friend. I know that this can and does cause weird situations and can break friendships... but i'm sure theres cases when it works out too.
2006-07-19 18:07:51 · answer #5 · answered by phishycoding 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not wrong at all! I am dating me brother's best friend, we have been together for 2 years and are going to get married in the next 1-2 years... go for it, but only if you are serious b/c breaking up with your best friends brother can harm your friendship if it ends badly
good luck!!
2006-07-19 16:56:54 · answer #6 · answered by plastik_persephone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best friend might like it if you two hooked up for keeps. Just make extra extra effort to continue to do as much with her as you used to do. Make sure your relationship with her does come first. You don't want her to feel like she's been traded for her brother.
2006-07-19 16:54:53 · answer #7 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your friend if they have a problem letting their brother give you the 2 digit fidgit. If they have a problem, figure out who you like more, your BFF or your man candy. If they dont have a problem, game on
2006-07-19 16:59:30 · answer #8 · answered by peardietz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No of course not just as long as you dont make your friend feel left out of your life it's ok. just dont get too involved cuz it's possible to screw up a good friendship by getting way 2 involved.
2006-07-19 16:56:16 · answer #9 · answered by *Tinkerbell* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think there is anything wrong with it, i like my bestfriend brother, its not weird between me and my friend, so maybe it wont be between u and yours.
2006-07-19 16:57:19 · answer #10 · answered by jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋