What should I do? My friend flirts with my man, but she doesn't know we are "Lovers"?

Question

She knows I like him but she doesn't know that we hooked up. We don't want everyone in our business, and she has a big mouth. Should I just tell her that I been messin with him so that she will leave him alone, and risk everyone findin out, or should I just mark my territory by flirting with him too?

Answer 1

If your friend doesn't know the depth of your relationship with your man, then she needs to be told. However, why is your man flirting with her? Why doesn't he tell her that he'd prefer that she didn't flirt because he really likes you? Also something to consider, is your friend the type that wouldn't move in on your guy if she knew you and him were together? Maybe she's clueless. Help her out and let her in on your secret. It isn't worth losing a friendship over by keeping it quiet. Good Luck

Answer 2

Why don't you just tell your friend in confience and chance her big mouth. Honestly there must be something more other than you don't want people in your business who's idea is it to keep it a secret? Is someone still playing the field? Is one embarressed of the other? Most people are proud to share the loves of there lives. If he really is your man then let the world know.

Answer 3

well you should talk to your man explain that your not comfortable with the flirting and then maybe he'll say go ahead and tell her. but explain everything to him. even about her having a big mouth.

Answer 4

tell her to back the **** up she ur's and next time u see her flirtin j go right up to him and give a kiss and be like oh hi w/e ur friend name is....and when ur alone wit her be like listen up ***** u need to back up off MY MAN be4 i make u!!!!!!!1works for me all time

Answer 5

what you do is your business. You don't have to prove anything if he is yours..unless you think he's gonna hook up with your friend