The thing is, I am worried about his safety in Lebanon. However, my history with him is long and complicated, and I've been doing well since making a clean cut with him. I am afraid reaching out will open old wounds...I don't want to end up getting upset over a lack of response etc. Besides, he does not really deserve much of my attention...however, it's the safety of his life we're talking about...bottom line is, I don't know. Advice anyone??
2006-07-19 09:40:44 · 18 answers · asked by FaithinJude 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's not your responsibility. Wish him well from afar, pray for him as you would any one of our troops, and leave it alone.
2006-07-19 09:48:37 · answer #1 · answered by Brandy 6 · 16⤊ 7⤋
No don't do it! You are absolutely correct the only thing you will accomplish is opening old wounds and you will get hurt. If you have been doing well from making a clean break from him contacting him will undo all the pain you have overcome to get to the state you are in now. I am going to be honest with you. You are worried about his safety? Why? Are you his mother? If it is his time to go it does not matter what you do he will be gone. You need to leave this situation alone because you are not completely over him which means you run a GREAT risk of getting hurt. You need to put yourself first. How will you feel when he does not respond? Think about that and if he does respond you will get your hopes up. If you email him you will just cause yourself frustration wondering "did he get it? Why didn't he respond? what does it mean?" Do you really want to go through that? Leave him alone.
2006-07-19 09:51:26 · answer #2 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont want to get hurt, and thats understandable so if you feel that just writiting a letter to him might hurt you then you might not want to do it. But it is also clear that you care about his safety which makes me think that the best thing to do is just to email him, just so he knows your worried and even if he doesnt email back, who cares. But if you are going to go through with it you have to tell yourself that no matter what you wont let him upset you, whether he sends back a response or not!
2006-07-19 09:46:04 · answer #3 · answered by LaurenLovesYou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very last time I checked, you would possibly want to no longer get entry to Yahoo! Mail by a mail software (utilising POP/SMTP) and not using a Yahoo! Subscription account, so which could be the region. have you ever used Yahoo! Mail by technique of a mail software formerly?
2016-11-06 20:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it sounds like you might be looking for the opportunity to contact him... If you're really interested in simply knowing that he is OK, is there anyone else that you could contact to ask? Like a 3rd party? That way you could put your mind at ease that he is indeed OK, and not upset things that have settled. Good luck to you.
2006-07-19 09:45:54 · answer #5 · answered by beadtheway 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let his family/friends know that you are concerned about his safety(as a friend), but don't email him, unless you want to open the relationship again.
2006-07-19 09:45:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like a good idea, but it truly is opening a can of worms UNLESS, you send one that says just wondering if you are ok, he sends one that say he's fine and YOU send no more after that. which gives you the answer you wanted but ends communication there.
2006-07-19 09:45:24 · answer #7 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just being human. You can't help if he'd take the mindset that just because you cared enough to see if he was alive/ok/whatever means you'll want to re-connect. It doesn't, and he shouldn't think that way. You're just being a good person. Go for it...keep it short and sweet.
2006-07-19 09:46:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
write a motomail saying just wanted to see that you were alright. I've heard a lot of stories on the news and thought I would check up on you.
2006-07-19 09:43:23 · answer #9 · answered by nemanoo2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a grown man. If he wanted to contact you, he would. He has people to help him if something goes wrong. There is nothing you can do in the States. If he needed you, he would contact you. If he has not, then leave it alone.
2006-07-19 09:45:23 · answer #10 · answered by NC_Pianist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send and email to make sure he is safe, but, no invitations to visit or meet. Just check on him and then keep your distance. It will probably save you alot of heartache to stay as far from him as you can.
2006-07-19 09:44:44 · answer #11 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋