I'm an extremely loyal person. Even in my thoughts. I know this is rare, even for a female, but do such males exsist? There's a lot of gay guys that talk about not wanting meaningless sex and waiting for the right person. Do any straight guys think that way?
2006-07-19 09:38:45 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i can't believe that you girls actually think that you are that much more loyal then us guys...i haven't seen my girlfriend in over 3 months and have NEVER even thought about about cheating on her. But i guess you just have to find the right guy for you...the right guy who loves you will be loyal. You don't want anyone that will end up cheating on you anyways.
2006-07-19 09:44:47 · answer #1 · answered by mtugodfath3r 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes there are loyal straight guys. I like to count myself among them. The biggest issue for me is finding a girl just as loyal as I am who is interested in me [no I don't have personality problems I am a nice and caring person, and although I know I'm not the best looking guy I am still good looking (so I've been told by women)]. Usually the good ones are taken.
2006-07-19 09:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guy is :)
Just stay strong and know that he's out there for you.
Remember, it's better to be alone for a while (even though it feels like forever) than to waste your time with the wrong one who will only hurt you in the end.
I never thought there was any man who could be honest, sincere, and loving, and at the same time be a man I can depend on for strength; but then I found my guy, go figure, on the net! It sounds crazy, I know, but it's true.
There really are truly honest and loyal men out there. Just stay true to yourself and stay strong in knowing you'll find him :) It may feel like an eternity now, but when you look back, this will only be a glimpse of time in your life :)
2006-07-19 09:46:08 · answer #3 · answered by docsgirl24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they are just past over for the ones that charm womans pants off. They are often times considered a bit boring because they are not in to much except trying to survive and also find a woman.
The problem here is two fold for many women will use the loyal male and I mean USE like use them up.
2006-07-19 09:42:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of loyal guys, but they are all with women who understand that it's in a man's nature to appreciate women. Not to say that they condone his philandering, but they work at keeping him interested and satisfied.
Women need to understand that men like change. Even 600 years of the socio-religious norm of pair-bonding can't compete with millenia of the human male animal's primal need to spread his seed widely.
That said, when a man finds a really great woman, he wants to be loyal. But women know that everything has a limit. Even women eventually tire of those sexy, strappy sandals you were so excited about two months ago. So you get a new pair. Men are a lot like that about women, so it's up to the woman to keep it interesting.
But that's by no means an excuse for guys to tomcat about. We must work hard at keeping you interested as well.
2006-07-19 09:45:27 · answer #5 · answered by TheAdviceGuy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many loyal guys and wait for the right person. But some change cuz ladies played them too. So are there? Yes. But some are lost due to people playing other people
2006-07-19 09:41:20 · answer #6 · answered by dbrhee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking if there are guys out there that don't cheat, yes there are honey.
If you are asking if there are guys out there that don't even think about what it would be like with someone other than their significant other or "look but don't touch"... that's doubtful. Same with women.
I'm a loyal person. I never cheated on my ex, even after he cheated on me. I've never cheated on my current boyfriend and he will never cheat on me because we've both been burned that way.
There are guys (and some girls, hehe) that turn my head, and there are some girls that turn his head. What's great about this is we can talk and tease each other about it. The fact that we are comfortable and trusting in our relationship makes us able to talk openly about what used to make us very uncomfortable in our past relationships.
There are a lot of guys out there who are looking for meaningful, loving relationships and not just sex. Many of them just haven't realized it yet, and when they do it'll knock them flat on their arses when they realize they're in love. Happy Man Hunting!
2006-07-19 09:49:50 · answer #7 · answered by Ima Random Thought 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are misunderstood creatures, they don't want sex all the time, not more than what women do! its just that when a woman shows her interest in a man, he just wants her to think that she is very special too (can't be rude you see!!) and things build up and when the pants are down whos gonna say "ewww look at that!".... they just get off with it.
But if they really like each other then they may stick forever ..those are the lucky ones :)
2006-07-19 09:54:15 · answer #8 · answered by sans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loyal guys have to practice meaningless sex to tune up for the sex with their loyal girl.
2006-07-19 09:41:42 · answer #9 · answered by Dano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a lot of loyal guys like myself that are straight. yes sex is cool but thats not all there is for a person to offer u just have to keep looking for that guy.
2006-07-19 09:43:56 · answer #10 · answered by ddrakej 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋