The man i am dating now is great but he doesn't have alot of time for me, maybe one day a week for a few hours. I met another man the other day and he asked me to meet him for drinks and I am not sure what to do. I don't want to miss out on a good thing.
2006-07-19 09:10:47 · 29 answers · asked by angeleyes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're single not married. Until then (or at the least engaged) you're free to date anyone you choose to! Why sit at home alone just because the first guy is "busy"? Go out, enjoy life, & have fun!
2006-07-19 09:15:04 · answer #1 · answered by virgogirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The perfect man would make more time for you than a few hours a week. That guy sounds like he is just using you. Wise up and find someone that will want you more than food. Then you can have a great life.
2006-07-19 16:14:57 · answer #2 · answered by old codger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man who doesn't have more than a few hours a week for you, isn't the kind of man you should be wasting more than a few seconds of your life on...
Dump Mr. "Don't Have No Time For You," and give the new guy a chance.
Life is too short... and it sounds like you think this new guy is a GOOD thing, so don't miss out!
GO FOR IT!
2006-07-19 16:15:16 · answer #3 · answered by Silly Little Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u take the risk ... if u have a great man in ur life and is very busy .. would u rather to lose him for someone ... be creative with ur life .. Take a hobby class, or else .. there are lot of things to do alone or bring a friend with u for drinks .. why u need naother guy just becz thsi so called perfect man was for you .. wake up and smell the coffee .. maybe u are not the right woman for him ..
2006-07-19 16:18:33 · answer #4 · answered by sunnya4life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's hardly "perfect" then is he, if he doesn't have much time for you? If he was that great, you wouldn't be torn about going out with someone else...that should tell you straight up, that you're not that into the current guy...
You could go ahead and date both (with their knowledge of course) and see if you develop feelings beyond "nice guy" for either one of them...
Bottom line, no regrets...better to take a chance on something, than to spend time (after it's too late) wishing you had...
Good luck...
2006-07-19 16:15:51 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are confused, you say he is the perfect man, but he only gives a few hours a week. I guess hes not so perfect huh? Are you on a steady basis or just dating? If steady, tell him you wanna date others just to be sure its right, if not just date and say nothing!!!
2006-07-19 16:14:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the answer to that should be quite obvious.You know that the guy you're with is great.You may not have all the time in the world but the key should be quality not quantity.I'm still dating my girlfriend who lives in Connecticut.I'm in Jersey.We make it work cuz we love eachother.I would not be unfaithful to her under any circumstances.Think about it.How many people you have dated?How did they work out?Want to go through all of that again??????
2006-07-19 16:18:57 · answer #7 · answered by joecseko 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you said it - perfect man? I did not know there was such a thing. But if you found him you had better keep him. Maybe the time he spends with you should be quality not quantity and if he is working - maybe it is for your future together. Think
2006-07-19 16:16:09 · answer #8 · answered by brokenheartsyndrome 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my girlfriend usually are barely able to meet for one day a week, usually saturdays, yet we still make it work, if hes the perfect man, then it makes sense to try and make it work. Weve been together now for almost five months, and I wouldnt trade it for anything.
2006-07-19 16:15:00 · answer #9 · answered by Aaron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he isn't the perfect man if you think you may go out with another guy. You could stick it out and keep yourself busy with your own identity instead of expecting him to make you complete you. By the way, no one is perfect
2006-07-19 16:14:10 · answer #10 · answered by Sue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋