I have this stupid "crush fetish" as its been called. I like to see girls crush stuff with their feet. Ya, ya I know its weird, please only post helpful answers, not just "your weird." Anyway, like I'm totally attracted to normal stuff with girls like totally (****, ***, etc.) but I have this too and I always find myself going online trying to find girls doing this stuff. I can't stand it. Any helpful tips or success stories to dump this stupid fetish?
2006-07-19 09:09:32 · 6 answers · asked by Zendy C 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
It is something you can't control, but you should go to a psychaitrist, and talk to them about it. I am sure there are ways to make it manageable.
2006-07-19 09:13:38 · answer #1 · answered by VL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not weird, but it seems to bother you. Do you have an employee assistance program at work? They can direct you to the right kind of therapist. Otherwise, there are many different types of professionals who can help you, a psychiatrist (who is a doctor), a psychologist, a therapist, a clinical social worker, or even a psychiatric nurse practitioner.
It seems to me that you will get the most 'efficient' type of help, meaning time and ability to dump the fetish, if you seek out professional help. Heck, even medication can help to lessen the urges. Good Luck....
2006-07-19 09:24:16 · answer #2 · answered by vbrink 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not like it's a huge deal. Chances are, you can find some website devoted entirely to that if you look hard enough. Eventually, when you meet a girl who really loves you and wants to make you happy you can tell her and believe it or not, she'll go get the recycle bin and take out all the aluminum cans and crush them one by one, just for you. (of course, one should be sure that they've got the right girl BEFORE they tell her this. Having all your friends know would be embarrasing for at least a short time.) As long as they're not too far out (strangling babies to death or watching women getting eaten by sharks), most loving partners should be O.K. with doing something that doesn't really do anything for THEM to make their partner happy.
2006-07-19 09:31:51 · answer #3 · answered by rickthewonderalgae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 - it would be a good idea to see a counselor (psychologist, not psychiatrist) who can help you understand the roots of your feelings and maybe overcome them.
2 - lots of people have fetishes, and this doesn't sound like a particularly harmful or destructive one. maybe you can find a cute girl who likes to crush stuff with her feet.... i mean, c'mon, it IS pretty satisfying to crush stuff with your feet. it's not like you're asking her to wear a diaper and dance around, or anything.
good luck to you .....
2006-07-19 09:26:48 · answer #4 · answered by Janci 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it really very severe? because if it is, i recommend you to go to a highly praised therapist, one that will really listen, not just blow you off with this is blah bah blah, see you next time. lol. because a lot of people go through these kind of stages, like my relative wanted to punch every baby he saw, but he knew it was wrong. it was just these weird urges. and now he's fine. what i think is, before you really go to a therapist, talk to someone you trust and see what they have to say about, try to allow them to limit your access to the internet whenever you feel like you wanna go on to find girls crushing stuff. eventually, you'll grow out of it. like i was with my relative whenever he saw a baby, and i would be like " don't think about it, why would you want to punch it? its a cute lil baby!" it'll go away, don't worry. just let someone know about this, and ask them to help you make sure your urge doesn't go out of hand before it goes away.
2006-07-19 09:32:00 · answer #5 · answered by Choco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may go away, I still have a little one, but now it is very manageable because time as passed and I think mine is going away, I know most of it is.
2006-07-19 10:16:41 · answer #6 · answered by prisonsongfreak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋