He was physically, emotionally, and verbally abusive to me. Last year he moved out because he wanted to be with his girlfriend rather than stay with the family. He is also in AA and MA. I really don't want to get him anything or even call him. It just feels wrong though.
2006-07-19 09:05:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Send him an e card and tell him how you really feel.
2006-07-19 09:08:17 · answer #1 · answered by Westport 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you're answered your own question... You shouldn't do anything or maybe you could send him a really agressive letter and tell how you feel. Talk to your mom or the other part of the family (that are on your side,of course) and ask for an advice.What's better,you should try to find a solution,together.
Good luck,I hope it comes out well.
2006-07-19 16:11:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy that is a good and tough question.
I think you are going to look deep inside of yourself and pray, pray, pray for help. God Will Guide you in the direction you should go.
All of God's Blessings, Guidance and Love.
2006-07-19 17:18:00 · answer #3 · answered by Fotios 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been through a similar situation and I find it a lot healthier for me to ignore my dad's birthday. I have decided that I need to focus on my feelings about myself instead of worrying about his feelings. Hope it helps.
2006-07-19 16:14:57 · answer #4 · answered by Clyde P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him a quality card and write down exactly how you feel about him. He will respect you for it.
2006-07-19 16:09:08 · answer #5 · answered by Forbes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it would be right to but don't if you dont want to I wouldn't!
2006-07-19 16:08:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm...tell him to get help...and let him know you love him
2006-07-19 16:08:30 · answer #7 · answered by Mod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋