will me and my ex were going out for along time. Then all the sudden out of the blue he send me a text saying "i think we should just be friends" and now i have his frist pocket knife and his misheddy shuold i give it back or keep it
2006-07-19 08:44:39 · 49 answers · asked by Polar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you should! I can't believe he wasn't man enough to break up with you in person I thought it was bad over the phone but a text message! they boy needs to grow some balls! He's the one that decided to end the relationship keep the stuff.
2006-07-19 08:48:32 · answer #1 · answered by T 4 · 14⤊ 5⤋
I know your pretty angry about his childish behavior were this is concerned, and to show him that you are angry there would be no better way than to keep what's his. This sounds like a good idea to get revenge back, but it doesn't change anything, and it sure won't make you feel better down the road once the thrill of doing this is over. Those are his things even though he doesn't deserve to get them back from you. I would give them back to him if he ever comes back for it, but I don't think he'll be asking you for anything since he couldn't be man enough to tell you to your face that he no longer wants a relationship with you. I wish you the best of luck in your future.
2006-07-19 09:02:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you only wanting to keep it because it is important to him and you want to hurt him? He's being petty to ask for it back, but if it doesn't mean anything to you, be a bigger person and give it back? Material things should not be that important. You will always have your memories.
2006-07-19 08:52:32 · answer #3 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should give it back. I have never received all my things from a past ex. Cause of that, I could not remain friends. Some of the things she had were connected to my family. I could not forgive her for not returning it.
2006-07-19 08:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by NïghtStalkër_666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it back. If it wasn't a gift to you, you should return it. There is nothing worse than a petty, vengeful ex that keeps things that do not belong to them.
2006-07-19 08:52:34 · answer #5 · answered by jdscorrupted 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, unless it is jewelry. Maybe his class ring if you have that. If you have lived together a long time and he invested in things, you might have to split. If it's stuff he bought with his own money, avoid the hassle and give it back.
2006-07-19 08:49:20 · answer #6 · answered by Bill 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What goes around comes around. If you don't you could lose something of the same value those things have to him yourself. But seeing that they are weapons drop them off at the nearest Police station and tell him to pick them up there, If the police want to part with them .Good Luck!
2006-07-19 08:52:06 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIVE IT BACK!
Don't give this loser any reason to contact you for anything. Give him back his stuff and wash your hands of this coward that can't even tell you in person that he's done.
2006-07-19 08:48:04 · answer #8 · answered by fourcolor4u2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him back his things. You don't need any reminders of him lying around your house. And you don't want the temptation of using these against him when he shows up at your house.
2006-07-19 08:48:44 · answer #9 · answered by torn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he dosent come back and get them then u should keep it as a reminder of the good times. If he does come back and ask's for them u should give them back and ask ur self if u still should be friends with him.
2006-07-19 08:52:09 · answer #10 · answered by AL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants his stuff back, make him come and get it himself. He was low-down for breaking up with you through a text message anyway. And if he never comes and gets it, sell it and get some money for it!
2006-07-19 08:49:18 · answer #11 · answered by Karmie P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋