What is the best way to get over a broken heart, without ripping him to shreds?

Question

I have two kids with this guy.and after seven years he decides to tell me that he doesn't love me and he's really not sure if he has ever been in love. I am not tring to sleep with any man right now. I want to hurt him the way he hurt me, or find peace

Answer 1

Time will eventually heal all wounds. Just don't think about it. keep busy. revenge and anger will only cause more pain and frustration. just live your life and appreciate what you have. don't dwell.

Answer 2

If you had made him everything in your life - you have no chance. Go ahead rip him up (as well as all your hair because you were so stupid).

If you have other interests in your life, you have 100% chance to get over. You should treat yourself like a patient leaving a hospital and going home. (You must have a "home").

Ignore him like a stranger - but be natural and cool and not forced. I suggest you show him your middle finger if no one else is watching.

You are lucky that you haven't got tied up this Junkie. I am sure a better guy will appear on your scene, sooner or later.

I suggest you first focus on YOURSELF. Start loving and respecting yourself. Dress attractively, eat well, do your work well and develop your skill / talents even more with zeal. If your family relationships are in good shape - you are lucky, otherwise go back to your family. Your parents will always take you back.

In short, get on even more with your life - but slowly and naturally - remember you are injured and for heaven's sake IGNORE THE BASTARD

Answer 3

Go out with some of your best girlfriends and just have FUN. Don't forget that your friends are more important than some guy. Don't think about him because it's not worth it. He obviously had no remorse for what he did so why should you sit around and mope or be pissed off? You have to get over it whether you want to or not. Find yourself someone who will treat you right.

Answer 4

Hi there!Don't worry time will heal!!!U will have 2 stay busy with things you like and try not to think about him.Go on a vacation with friends or spend time away from everything what you r use to otherwise get a hobbie and join a gym or join a exercise club,hiking club where you can meet new people.

Answer 5

The best way to mend a broken heart is to heal it with self-love and appreciation. Learn to love yourself for all of the great things your have accomplished and remember he is a fool for leaving you. The only other thing to heal a broken heart is time. Try not to call him in a druken stupor or you will only damage your pride.

Answer 6

Get busy...don't sit around thinking about ur lose just move on...i know u must be thinking its easy for me to say..but just think that there is more to life and get urself involved in some activities like music....music can cure all broken hearts...try to keep away all things tht might remind you of him...hope u will feel better soon ;)

Answer 7

You should cry to release your emotions. Time is the best way to get over a broken heart. Meeting new people will also help.

Answer 8

Same boat here.......Take the high road hun.

There are three things that work for me:

No contact
No contact
No contact

Don't call him, write to him and, for heaven's sake don't see him. You'll get past it faster and he'll think you're fine without him. Which I'm sure you are ;)

Answer 9

Find someone else that will love because it will not only make him mad but it will also tell him that you moved on

Answer 10

I would start a hobby you can occupy your mind with or by something for your self, for example a motorcycle.