well i have a b-friend that always tell's me that we should have sex already!!! because we have 9 months together what sould i do??????????
2006-07-19 08:34:23 · 26 answers · asked by jessica l 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
don't once you loose your virginity its gone. Save it for marriage
I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years all through school and we havent. If your boyfriend respected you and truely loves you he should not push you, until there is a ring on your finger don't let him push you into it
about the hurting thing... I wouldn't know because i'm still a virgin also sorry...
2006-07-19 08:40:04 · answer #1 · answered by Trichelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything you're not ready to do, and if your boyfriend can't accept the fact that you want to wait, then i think you should dump him, you can probably do better anyway. And it will hurt no matter what age you lose your virginity, but every girl is different, it may hurt a lot or you might not even feel it. Being a virgin does not make you weird, it doesn't make you an ice queen. Don't have sex if you're not ready, it will just complicate your life.
2006-07-19 15:40:39 · answer #2 · answered by Roxanne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no certain age to start having sex, and some people wait until after marriage to have sex. Well, I guess it is up to you. But I think you should have protected sex if you decide to have sex at all. You might not want to get pregnant until after marriage, and when you're out of school (if you're in college.) If you're pregnant while in school, you have to drop out for a couple months when the baby is born. So, I'm just giving you a heads-up warning.
2006-07-19 15:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by Jell-O = ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything you don't want to do. There's no time limit on a relationship. Remember you can only have your first time ONCE!! Make it perfect. If the time is right and the guy is right and takes his time it doesn't have to hurt, if it does it will only be for a couple of seconds. The whole experience can be great if done right and slowly to pleasure both of you. I've always told my boys when we were talking about sex that if the woman they were making love with didn't enjoy it as much as they did, he didn't do his part.
2006-07-19 15:40:41 · answer #4 · answered by teamkimme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you should go back to school to learn spelling and grammar. Then you should dump your boyfriend who is pressuring you to have sex. It doesn't matter how old you are, the first time will cause a little pain but nothing more than you would have if you had a headache. (not a good comparison but I couldn't think of anything else) It sounds as if you are way too young to accept the responsibility of having sex. Find something else to do.
2006-07-19 15:39:59 · answer #5 · answered by o2bamy25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter what age it wont hurt any less or more. I think it is commendable that you are still a virgin. Sex is not all it is cracked up to be unless it is under the right conditions. The best conditions are marriage and the man or woman that you love and loves you. Believe me it is true. many people have experienced it both with their loving partner and a one nighter or bf or gf and believe me the loving partner is the way to go. don't get bullied into doing it before you are ready.
2006-07-19 15:38:48 · answer #6 · answered by donna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you have sex before you turn 18 it going to hurt. Well if you're ready to have sex go ahead ,but if he really loves you he would wait til you are ready. If he always talking about sex then all he want is you to give it up to him and leave you after. i don't really know what his intentions are but I've seen this in a lot of girls and there BFs. Well I hope this info help you out but all i have to say now is good luck.
2006-07-19 16:28:24 · answer #7 · answered by Quin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING A VIRGING. It doesn't matter what age you have sex at, being over 18 won't make it hurt any worse. Don't have sex with your boyfriend just because you have been together for 9 months. If you get pregnant, you can bet he won't stick around for long.
2006-07-19 15:42:53 · answer #8 · answered by jack russell girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let anything he says be the reason for giving in. Do it when YOU want to and only then. He will say ANYTHING to get you to give in, and NO, it won't hurt more than at a later time....that's just another angle to try to get you to give it up. Stick to your values and if he really adores you as he seems to (9 months is a long time), he'll be okay, even if frustrated.
2006-07-19 15:42:07 · answer #9 · answered by maynerdswife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until YOU are ready, not your friend. How old are you?! Many of my friends didn't have sex until they were in college, some not until their mid 20's, some are even waiting for marriage, so I wouldn't rush it. Do what feels right to you and don't give into the pressure!
2006-07-19 15:39:24 · answer #10 · answered by Gina Rocks! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋