hypothetically, if you were feeling extremely alone?

Question

would you go out with a married man? If you thought that you are in love with him, even though it would mean to crash your values and at last you might end up feeling worst ...

Answer 1

I dont care how alone you are feeling, you dont need to stoop to the "married man" level. You might start off trying to keep your heart and commitment out of that relationship but one day, it would not be enough. He might be saying all of the right things but it is still not good enough. You would have to work on his schedule and not yours. One day you would want more from him and he wouldnt be able to offer it to you and then you would REALLY be alone. (holidays, birthdays, special ocassions) He would not be able to spend that kind of time with you.

Please, dont settle for less. Why would you even want to spend time with a man who has supposedly committed his life to another woman? What does that tell you about the kind of person that he is. You deserve much better than that.

If you feel that ALONE, you could: hang out with the girls, hang out with a single male, call up family members, get a part time job, rent a movie, go skating, bake cookies, join a club, go to church, read your bible, pray, go shopping, get a pet, volunteer at your local hospital, drive a taxi, sell avon, babysit, collect stamps or coins, volunteer with the girl scouts, study global warming, become a candy striper, ........

Just dont settle for less! You deserve better than that!

Answer 2

I'm going to give you advice on this because I have been with a married man before. If you are already feeling extremely lonely a married man would make you feel a lot worse. I didn't get involved with this guy because I was lonely, it was just for sex in the begining, but you can't control some things and we fell in love. I wasn't looking foward to it, but it happened. I loved him dearly, but I always regret getting myslef involved with him while he was married. Over time I felt so lonely and so hurt almost everyday. It really will bring you down in the end especially if you two love each other. Trust me don't do it, you will waste so much precious time. Time that you could have maybe had with someone else. I always said I would help any woman out there that was in the same situation I was in. I had never done anything like that before and I had nobody to give me advice or tell me the real deal about getting involved with married men. I hope that you will take my advice and walk away from the relationship. I know it's hard if you two are in-love, but you will be so happy you did down the road. You should want better for your life than settling right now for someone that can't be there for you full-time. I know every feeling you have right now, believe me when I say it. You are not the only person who has been where you are, but sit down and think about what I have written to you. I hope you will make the best decision for yourself in the end.

Answer 3

I would have to say NO, If your that lonely, go out with someone from work, who is single and nice, that catches your eye, and make the first move. I think its great when women hit on guys, it takes the pressure off of being rejected. Or go to a club, find someone who isn't a Phyco, find a nice, intelligent, young man, who is interested in what your interested in. You know the consequences in going out w/ a married man, so don't even put yourself in that situation, just create a similar situation, but with a non-married man.

Answer 4

No. He is married. Marriage vows are sacred and if yo go out with him, you will feel worse in the end. And don't go thinking you can get him to leave her, because even if you do, could you sleep at night without wondering if he would find someone else now that he's with you? Not a good idea. You want to be with him and he really wants you, he'll leave his wife.

Answer 5

Dating a married man is just asking for trouble. Number one, you're ruining his wife's life and maybe even their kids if they have any. And number two, he more than likely won't leave his wife for you so you're just going to be his thing on the side. Married men who are still trying to date are always up to no good. Find you a good man who's going to dedicate himself to you fully instead of someone who's going to sleep with you and go home to his wife to get some more. He's treating you like a piece of meat and if that's how you want to be treated, then stay with him. But if you're ready for a real relationship where you are his one and only, find you a good man. Good luck and I hope you make the right decision.

Answer 6

The answer to your question is no. I value my morals and just because I am feeling alone it does not mean that i should go after someone I can't have. In the end you will feel worse about yourself.

Answer 7

Hypothetically anything can happen,its whether u want it to or not.If its just a fantasy,go wild,if not,why break up a marriage.How can u trust someone that would get married and then cheat.

Answer 8

I'm sorry to say but that's wrong in my eyes. If everyone cheated on there partner then how could you trust anyone. My last gf cheated on me for a year so i feel very strongly about being faithful.

Answer 9

Yes I am in that situation right now and every time I try to let it go he begs me and pleads and its been 3 years we get along , have great conversation and outrageous sex. Right now I cant let him go. I will say this when he gets up to leave I sometimes feel like sh it! Why because hes not mine. You will only be lonlier and feel like his dirty little secret.Dont do it.

Answer 10

no that isnt lonely its low to have to be with someones elses man and not to be mean but you have to have really low self esteem to do that. you are better than that. find someone who you can be with and that isnt married and is willing to think about marriage with YOU.