this past Sat there was a party at my house and after everyone left me and this guy I really like (there's no past relationship) stayed up and watched a move and we were cuddling on the sofa and at the end of the movie we kissed then we went to the movies the next night with some other people and he didn't try anything. I don't get how one time they can be all over you and the next they are like what ever.
And guys say women are confusing.
2006-07-19 08:19:58 · 27 answers · asked by ....... 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would make the moves but I'm a shy girl and afraid of rejection. I pretty sure he knows I like him. He's best friends with my cosin and I think he's told him that I like him.
2006-07-19 08:38:53 · update #1
PIMP SLAPPER just email me already.
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2006-07-19 08:58:54 · update #2
He would be crazy not to like you!
2006-07-19 08:55:25 · answer #1 · answered by Pimp_Slapper 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Maybe it was the situation, some guys are more open to showing thier feeling when you are alone with them. Cuddling on the sofa is so much more fun then going out. Invite him over to your place for a dinner and movie and see what happens. Just don't push him too hard.
2006-07-19 15:24:01 · answer #2 · answered by confused/hurt/angry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first of all, Women are confusing ;o)
Next maybe he was worried about what the other people would think about the situation. If they didn't know he had a "girlfriend" and all of a sudden there is this "Chick" he is hanging all over, how would that look to the other people? Just a thought.
2006-07-19 15:25:09 · answer #3 · answered by flyboy_447 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes guys are always like that today your the best girl in the world and tomorrow it is fu*ck you and fu*ck off! I know exactly how you feel and now you are all confused wondering what the hell happened and if you got the wrong signals. When I am put in this situation I try not to appear clingy. I usually just leave the guy alone. I don't contact him in anyway because God forbid.... I do not want him to know how much I think of him. I suggest just leaving the guy alone if he is truly interested in you he will contact you.
2006-07-19 15:31:14 · answer #4 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why r u waiting for him to make the move? He sounds like he might just be a really nice guy who you need to make the move on... Invite him out ALONE. Don't hint around. Call him and tell him you want to go to out with him. Don't get discouraged if he says something that you THINK might mean he doesn't want to go out unless he SAYS he does not want to go out with you at all. Then when you go out with him, get close to him, kiss him, and tell him you want to date him. This guy seems like he can't take a hint or drop hints so be very plain and don't assume things from hints unless he says something very clearly. He might be kind of clumsy with giving and recieving signals. After this you will know for sure either one of 2 things. 1) He is not interested in you, or 2) You now have a nice b.f. who doesn't throw himself at a girl. If you always wait for a guy to pursue you, you will only get guys who chase girls (Note girls -- as in a lot of girls!)
2006-07-19 15:28:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he thinks it is corny to publically dispalay affection. Try inviting him over for another movie, I'll bet he is all over you again. PDA is definately not appropriate. Maybe if you guys end up together for a while you will show some affection in public, but you just hooked up with him, give it some time.
2006-07-19 15:26:14 · answer #6 · answered by Quarter Piece 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he likes you but doesnt want everyone in his business. Wants to just keep it between the two of you. Or maybe it was just something that happened, who knows what was going through his head while watching the movie
2006-07-19 15:23:38 · answer #7 · answered by mommyof2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He either wants to keep it on the down low, or it was just a physical attraction that he acted upon. You should talk to him about it and find out how he feels about you. Find out if he's interested in you. That's the only way to really know what's going through his mind.
2006-07-19 15:22:47 · answer #8 · answered by youdontknowme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a guy but im not like that most guys are theres people out theree thet dont look on the inside if u read my questions ull see that i have relationship problems too but if that guys isnt smart enuf to stick with what he has then move on cuz he isnt worth it just go up to him and tlak bout it and straghten it all out
C.B.
2006-07-19 15:25:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be shy OR he might just be playing a game with you to see if you care. Guys are very confusing and I am sure they say the same thing about us. LOL...
2006-07-19 15:31:27 · answer #10 · answered by Melissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just thought you guys went too fast, sounds like he is trying to be a gentleman
2006-07-19 15:23:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋