I was with him when i was 12 and he was 15, we were together for 3 months, then when i was 13 and he was 16, we got back together for three months. Now its like were in the process of getting back together, but when he;s mean to me.. he breaks my heart so bad and makes my cry myself to sleep. But i love him to death, lol. So should i go out with him again?
2006-07-19 08:18:54 · 14 answers · asked by Steph 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No don't give him the time of day because it will hurt you all over again and your too young to go thru all that heartache right now! Take your time love will come to you!
2006-07-19 08:22:52 · answer #1 · answered by something sweet & sexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should go out with him again and again. Plan on wasting the next 10 years with him, breaking up, crying, then taking him back because you love him so much. I mean he's just a little mean to you right, not really super mean. Dang he sounds so cool and neat, no wonder you love him so much. I wish I could date him he sounds so cool. I think I love him now. You are so lucky to have this guy, he's the only guy who can be mean to you and get love in return. I'm jealous.
2006-07-19 08:24:30 · answer #2 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my life I have learned that when you break up with a guy - it's for a good reason and playing the yo-yo game only creates more heartache.
You gave this relationship two chances and both times it ended badly for you. Are you willing to risk your heart for a third time?
The best thing you can do when a relationship ends is to learn your lesson and move on. There are other guys out there and there is most likely a very special one out there who will treat you right and not break your heart. I suggest you go out in search of him and leave this other guy behind.
2006-07-19 08:23:00 · answer #3 · answered by Tamborine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he is just using you! When you love someone you don't do things that will intentionally hurt them. You are young, you have your whole life ahead of you. Just take it easy be friends. Someday you will find a guy who will respect and love you for you. Take care and think about the choices you make and what the consequences can be fro the rest of you life
2006-07-19 08:26:18 · answer #4 · answered by sam04m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely i comprehend the position ur coming fro im a woman and sometime we only imagine of alternative ppls emotions and only make the massive challenge. so i say only say im sorry yet i stumbled on some different person i nonetheless opt to be friends yet no longer with benifits and only be hoest and if he cant take the reality he wasnt a real pal. yet u favor to inform him or he will be even extra beaten if he unearths out from some different person.
2016-10-14 23:23:19 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no b/c if it didnt work the other times what makes you think its going to work now. you can find someone that you are going to be with and breakup with. if you like that kind of thing than do it if not move on. your young have fun
2006-07-19 08:22:34 · answer #6 · answered by Kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is not mature enough to understand relationships, unless he apologises for makin you feel sad.
guys may sometimes act mean to get even with you, so it also depends how you are commiting towards him.
i dont think he is acting mean on purpose, otherwise why wud he keep getting back to u?
try to understand him better and allow him to understand u better.
2006-07-19 08:26:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should go out with him if he hurts you like that.. I think you should just be good friends with him and always be there for him..
2006-07-19 09:00:57 · answer #8 · answered by *!ShLEy_11!* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no no... Learned this one the hard way...never date an ex. There's a reason you broke up.
2006-07-19 08:22:36 · answer #9 · answered by Peter M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he hurts you more than love you, don't get together again with him. you're still really young.
2006-07-19 08:22:03 · answer #10 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋