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i have been married and only with men in my past but i have this desire to have sex with a woman,but i dont know how to find one. and i dont want to tell my girlfriends because i dont want them to think i'm weird.

2006-07-19 08:14:10 · 3 answers · asked by one80's chick 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Hey Mail me....I will Surely give you some ideas.. my id is Sharans15@yahoo.com

2006-07-19 08:23:51 · answer #1 · answered by Sharan 2 · 0 0

It is also nonsensical, unscientific and illogical to think that people are 100% or 50/50. There is no proof of this or that. It does seem unlikely a person would be exactly at the 100% point or exactly at the 50% point on the spectrum. Especially when our hormones are never so exact. One thing we all have in common, as humans, is that we like to round and we like to group. We have trouble with the in-between; it always has to be black and white. I'm biracial and have experienced this all my life, either I have to be black or I have to be white. It's what we do in everything! And considering this topic is taboo in certain places of the world, I would say you are too biased to comment on this. Anyone who is uncomfortable around a certain topic will strictly deny before considering. Consider. What do you really know about sexuality? Just that you get off to a woman? How does that prove you are not, say, 95% on the spectrum? You can't be so dense as to think that that mere 5% suggests you are sexually attracted to men. It has also been said that this spectrum involves all relationships. Friendships and romances alike. You may feel an emotional connection to a guy (you're friends). You're not entirely 100%. If you say this doesn't count as intimate relationships, what about those girls you had only seen as friends for a period before finding yourself sexually interested? And those girls you were interested in but found you only saw them as a friend. Aren't all relationships related? Edit: Your mess up was "there is no spectrum". Again, you do not know. You have absolutely no proof. Talk about fallacies, ad hominems? "such views are ridiculous", "don't put your own insecurities on me", "you are either sexually attracted or not". I'll add one: You are another simple-minded man. "Either, or. It is, or it isn't. There is no in-between. Black and white. 100% or 0%...there are no numbers in between. 'But why do you say that?' - 'Because thinking further is too complicated for me' "Again, a 5% is nowhere near that 95%...it would not(!) cause serious feelings to develop. There is a such thing as being too far on one end to feel anything significant. It does not necessarily mean 100%. I find it funny how you label me as insecure. I am willing to accept this about sexuality while you stand in discomfort, and denial...Men don't talk about this because they fear ruining their reputation. Not because women are dumb. In fact, women are more intelligent for stepping past their rep and their pride. You care too much. Thus, you are insecure. Many of your claims are false, or simply opinion. Suddenly, you were a psychologist "If people grow up in a normal environment, chances are the person is going to be straight"...where did you get this? Did you follow up with your own experiments and research? Was it in Time magazine? What's going on?LGBT people are in all populations of the world. You certainly are close-minded. Stop following your own biases and ideas for a minute. Clean your slate and really look at it. Are you so peeved about this topic because you fear it might be true? If you're confident in your sexuality, why the fuss?

2016-03-16 02:04:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You might know someone and not "know" it because they don't say anything. They have clubs for bi-sexual people and you could go to one of those and search.

2006-07-19 08:37:54 · answer #3 · answered by BbyGrl80 4 · 0 0

first do u really thought of doing it.....and if so ....u could find many lesbians on various websites, or near ur local area, or try to find one.......

2006-07-19 08:19:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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