I luv my bf but its just like when we are together he just seems to be bragging about his size and how "comfortable" he feels of his penis size. I dont know but i didnt even asked him for the size or i dunt ever bring it up in the conversation but I get the sense that he wants to tell me. But i dunt want to know because that is not what matters to me . we are not sexually active but we make out and stuff and sometimes i get orgasms and he has never fingered me . But i just wander why is he always mentioning his penis if i dunt even ask him about it. i ve talked to him about it that we dunt have to have sex not even oral cuz i am satisfied just the way he kisses me. What should i do ?
2006-07-19 08:10:46 · 17 answers · asked by Dr. Truth 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old are you two? I agree with a few others that have answered you...he sounds really insecure and seems to be trying to scheme you into wanting to see it. I say you just be honest and tell him that it's becoming a real turn off and that if it keeps up you'll be looking elsewhere, regardless of how big he is. I think he needs to page through a bunch of the questions relating to size on this site and see for himself that size really boils down to meaning nothing. He's been mislead by the vast amount of BS put out by the late night infomercials and internet porn. If he really wants to be a great lover, he needs to learn what makes you tick, then keep practicing. :) So, tell him to grow up...if he can't you need to move on. Later, Matt.
2006-07-19 08:19:03 · answer #1 · answered by adtmatt 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
How old is he? Sounds like he needs to grow up and stop being so stuck up. Maybe he wants others to know for different reasons. For a guy to know so they stay away from you because you're not interested as you're happy that he has a big penis. For girls to know, to feel wanted and make you jealous.
2006-07-19 08:17:19 · answer #2 · answered by DON 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well guys normally brag when they have nothing there just to pump themselves up, or I'd say about 10% that do brag actually got something. But its not good to bring it up anyway so i think you should tell him to shut it every now and again it wouldn't hurt ^ ^
2006-07-19 08:20:41 · answer #3 · answered by Sandcrab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's hoping you'll say 'let me see...' and go to the next step. Tell him you don't care for his anatomy and shut up. He also sounds insecure. It may be only the size of a gummy worm.
2006-07-19 08:13:17 · answer #4 · answered by spolie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes insecure
2006-07-19 08:12:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's how men are maybe he thinks that talking about his penis will make you want him. but ignore it or play the dirty talk game thats always fun. i would encourage u to try and see what hes bragging about.
2006-07-19 08:16:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he wants to get in yur pants. it seems like it makes you uncomfortable so next time he brings it up tell him off for it. tell you don't really care and that hes making you uncomfortable. make it clear that you don't want to hear about it anymore. tell him to respect you. or dump him if he doesn't stop - tell him to stop being insecure.
2006-07-19 08:15:49 · answer #7 · answered by v.ball_17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you both are way to young...and also that he is actually insecure about it and feels to be a man he needs you to see and be like "WHOA!" i personally say no matter what, you can get better than a guy thats THAT stupid and insecure..i say dump him
2006-07-19 08:13:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys are obssesed with their package,just ignore it ,or ask him to stop if he doesn't then you should move on because he doesn't respect you if he keeps talking about something that makes you this uncomfortable
2006-07-19 08:15:09 · answer #9 · answered by Wish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He trying to get you to want to see it or let him have sex with you.
2006-07-19 08:13:30 · answer #10 · answered by what it do 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋