my dad is a horrible dad. hes 100% abaric. and doesnt know how to speak much english. hes one of thoses fathers you wish youve never had. hes very mean to my family. i have 2 older sisters and my oldest one is like my mom. shes moving out and shes everything to me. when she moves out im screwed. my other sister i barley see. i cant stand living with my dad and i never see my mom because she works so much. i have noone at home to talk to and noone understands. its a hard problem and i dont know what to do... can i please have a little advice?
2006-07-19 08:08:26 · 12 answers · asked by kay kay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
im 15, hes never hit me. he doesnt have the courage to, he cheats on my mom, only me and my sisters know. hes verbually rude, everytime i talk to my mom shes like "kayla hes your dad and my husband too bad" i already play sports to get out of home, and i have one aunt and one grandma that lives like 2 hours away.
2006-07-19 08:19:37 · update #1
I don't know how old you are, but if you are school-aged, tell your school counselor, a trusted teacher, or a member of your clergy. Work to develop a support system of friends outside of your family. Try to keep a positive attitude. Learn to rely on yourself. Devote yourself to your education and move out as soon as possible.
I had a horrible family life but, somehow, I remained optimistic and focused on the future. I hope you can do the same. I am sorry about your situation. Remember, you can't change others. You can report and discuss your problems but, ultimately, you will have to learn to take care of yourself. It can be extremely sad to live in a bad family situation, but when you escape, living well will be your best revenge.
2006-07-19 08:23:48 · answer #1 · answered by ahhihello 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wonder how your Father is mean? Does he hit you or is he verbally abusive, maybe he's too strict on you. Whatever it may be, it sound as if he's impossible to live with. Could you move out with your sister? Live w/ an aunt, ask your mom to be home more often.
Soon you will be 18 and able to live on your own. But until then keep your distance and stay as close as you can to your other family.
2006-07-19 08:15:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you dislike your father because he is strict or is he truly mean to you? If so, what do you classify as being mean? Does he physically or mentally abuse you. Maybe you should try talking to your mother about this. If hes just a rude guy, and pushy maybe distance yourself from him by doing sports or afterschool activities. Good luck!
2006-07-19 08:16:24 · answer #3 · answered by Candycane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life gets much tougher than that, dude. Don't you have any friends at school? Go stay at a friends house after school for as long as possible. Minimize the time spent at home.
2006-07-19 08:17:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a father who comes from a portion of the world where women....regardless of wife or daughter...are treated like property. His.
See if you can hitch the ride with your mother. You may be better off in the future.
Good luck kid.
2006-07-19 08:12:41 · answer #5 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT talk to strangers, OK? No advice..they'll make trouble for ya..You're dad is arabic and it's WAY TOO hard to change him....
2006-07-19 08:17:37 · answer #6 · answered by very_incredible_princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it sucks just learn from it so you wont repeat the pain you feel because this phase will pass and you will have the power. not much help but i wish you good luck.
2006-07-19 08:27:39 · answer #7 · answered by HEY boo boo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing I can suggest is move in with your sister when she moves.
2006-07-19 08:20:35 · answer #8 · answered by lover of Jehovah and Jesus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a myspace and talk to strangers. u DO have friends right?
2006-07-19 08:11:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, U SOUND LIKE MY FRIEND KELLY, AT LEAST U DONT HARM UR SELF.....................WAIT OR DO. JUST KEEP UR HEAD UP, I KNOW HOW U FEEL. IM HAVING FAMILY ISSUES TOO
2006-07-19 08:13:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋