the good guy is everything i could ever want but the bad guy is the love of my life. i known the bad guy for 7 yrs and we have been through a lot so i dont want to loose everything we have worked on. he dosent realize what he has yet...i know one day he will see but i know my worth and i know i deserve better. the good guy wants to give me the world but i want to give the bad guy the world. the bad boy isnt bad he just isnt good. my mind says the good guy but my heart says the bad guy. do i follow my heart or listen to my mind. please help me...xoxo
2006-07-19 07:50:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Hair
he will not realize what he has until he loose it. trust me. It is not worth you torturing yourself with I think you know which one is the for you even before you wrote out the first word. I don't think you should be with either one. that is my final answer. If you loved either one you would have made the decision. NONE. The bad boy is a jerk who doesn't treat you wright mainly cause you don't make and the good one you think is too good for you.
Work on your self esteem and respect then if they both still want you then decide
2006-07-19 07:58:58 · answer #1 · answered by tasha 5 · 5⤊ 4⤋
Been there, done that and moved on.
Bad guys will always be bad.
U can never change them.
They will only say and do enough to get things from u.
While a good guy is there to do what makes u happy,
no matter what the cost.
The good guy can last a life time.
While a bad guy can only please u just for a while.
It's your choice if u want a lasting relationship or a temporary thrill that can later lead to heartbreak and regret. Most of all the lost of someone good.
2006-07-19 15:10:08 · answer #2 · answered by Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound just like me, we are enablers and it is best if you can get out of this bad relationship now,and go for the nice guy it will feel weird at first,I know, but there really is not much of a future in the hanging on to a fantasy that you bad guy will change.
2006-07-19 14:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by pycosal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your mind. Think of a future with the bad guy and think of the future with the good guy. You could learn to appreciate the good guy. If by "you and the bad guy have been through a lot" means abuse run away as fast as you can to the good guy.
2006-07-19 14:52:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your bad boy will not change. Come on, you already know the answer, you're just in denial. Just because he does something to your hormones doesn't mean he will ever make you happy for very long. Give the good boy a chance, your heart may catch up.
2006-07-19 14:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know that one day the bad guy will see? He may never see how much you care for him. If the good guy loves you, give him a chance.
2006-07-19 14:55:38 · answer #6 · answered by spotlight_babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is highly likely that the way your are behaving will make the good guy bad and if you keep helping the bad guy he may become good. That's good but could be bad. It is bad that you don't choose the good guy who may end up bad instead of the bad guy who may turn out good. Are you still with me, good. Now, if you were good you would see the good in the good guy and not see good in the bad guy, who as I said may become a good guy. Still with me. Good. Now, if I was any good, I would suggest that you take up with the good guy before he becomes bad and forget the bad guy even if he does become good. You agree, good decision.......................
2006-07-19 15:02:48 · answer #7 · answered by thomasrobinsonantonio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what you mean by Bad. If he treats you right than go with your heart.Always listen to your heart. If you mean Bad like,He gets in trouble a lot, than your heart is tricking you this time. Than I would go with the good one. He wants to give you the world. He really loves you than. Do you love him too? Good luck!
2006-07-19 15:28:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh xoxo! i like him
2006-07-19 14:57:02 · answer #9 · answered by Eric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋