what to do
2006-07-19 07:48:47 · 6 answers · asked by Angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if I was you I would break up with the bf. You are just wasting his time and yours by staying with someone when your heart isn't in it.
Can you tell this other person how you feel? Even if you can't be with this person you are in love with, it's better to move on and find someone that you really love.
2006-07-19 07:52:48 · answer #1 · answered by Kitty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you have a boyfriend doesnt mean you are in love with him. It doesnt mean you have to be in love with him...
He is someone you like, find attractive, and has the same interests as you do right now.
WHEN WILL PEOPLE GET THAT BOYFRIENDS AND GIRLFRIENDS DONT HAVE TO GET MARRIED AND LIVE HAPPILY EVER AFTER!
what happend to just dating.. oh, yeah.... sex. Thats right, people are starting to "make love" and even when they arent in love, so people who are making it with other people tend to justify it by pretending they are in love, or forcing it on their selves. ITS LIES AND CRAZYNESS...
You should never feel ashamed of the way you feel no matter who or what it hurts. you cant change it, and you cant help it.
Just because you are in love with someone else doesnt mean you have to give up the pleasure of your boyfriends company. Just dont tell him lies and dont make him believe you love him if you dont, because that is wrong. If he starts with the i love you crap and you arent feeling it, you have to tell him that. It will sting, but chances are if you dont love him then he really doesnt love you in the long run.. Chemistry... you and your boyfriend have chemisty...
2006-07-19 07:56:36 · answer #2 · answered by anjelinna85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you with your boyfriend if you love someone else. That is not fair on your boyfriend. Break up with your boyfriend until you can resolve your feelings for the other person.
2006-07-19 07:52:37 · answer #3 · answered by middle aged and love it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the same way. I've been in love with someone but we can't be together. He's moved away now and our relationship didn't end so well. But I still love him. However I know I can't stop living my life either. As the song says "if you can't be with the one you love, love the one your with".
2006-07-19 07:52:51 · answer #4 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you're just leading him on ...is your relationship w/ ur bf working out?? i doubt anything will workout w/ another guy on your mind. but i'd say to just break up w/ him and tell him why. at least he'll know you were truthful the whole way through and you never meant to hurt him.
2006-07-19 08:30:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what u think is right.
2006-07-19 07:52:24 · answer #6 · answered by Angel. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋