I dated this guy for three weeks, and everything was fine until we started to get closer, and hold hands, and see each other all the time. All of the sudden, he told me he was scared, and that he didn't want to get hurt again. Why did he even ask me out in the first place? What is wrong with him?
2006-07-19 07:45:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
XXXXXXXXXXXX he's already answered the question for you. He is scared. There's no answer better than that. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-19 07:50:17 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all guys shy away from commitment
that was just it, he wasn't ready and was scared. Us guys can sometimes be completely freaked out by our feelings, they can sneak up on us when we least expect it and some guys just can't handle it/
I'm sorry you were hurt but you just have to look for someone mature enough to face themselves and their emotions (and be patient with us, it's all new to us too)
2006-07-19 14:53:46 · answer #2 · answered by Karce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't anything wrong with him I think.
If he's being honest, tell him how you feel, tell him you're not that other girl and you won't try and hurt him. That should do the trick. Just give the boy time.
2006-07-19 14:53:50 · answer #3 · answered by brandonedbishop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with u, he's probably gotten hurt real bad b4 and is afraid it will happen again, that's y he has his guards up, u just have 2 take it slow with him, little by little he will begin 2 open up. goodluck
2006-07-19 14:51:56 · answer #4 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't anything wrong with him. Maybe he felt you guys were going a little to fast for his taste.
2006-07-19 14:50:28 · answer #5 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's gay......lol.....i don't know but, maybe he's still in his own little drama world...try to leave and see what he does....that would really dramatize him for life..hahahahahahhaha....i'm drunk at work ..ignore me.
2006-07-19 14:51:47 · answer #6 · answered by Zoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are immature and they don't take to responsibilities right off but eventually they will act right if they are really into you.
2006-07-19 14:57:22 · answer #7 · answered by starodo1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋