How do I get a Girl to like me?

Question

I'm in high school, the time most people get hoocked up and called Boyfriend and Girlfriend. In 06-07 i'll be a Sophmore and still have never had a girlfriend. there are more girls @ Goldendale High School than guys so I should Find a Girl right For me, even if it turns out to be a girl from another town. So, what do girls look for in a guy? How should I act w/ the Ladies? Should I be a Jock or a Band Geek? I so tired of being lonely. So anyone, HELP ME get a girl friend. Or Ladies... Are You Gonna Be My Girl??? Call me 509-261-1274 or [e-mail]

Answer 1

I was a jock and a band geek. Wow! You're taking me way on back there.

Lil' dude-- be charming and goofy, light hearted, and fun. Who isn't going to be attracted to that? Especially, especially, especially to the ladies who do not fit into what I call the "Alpha Feline Crowd." Seek out those (in the Beta Crowd-- lower on the food chain) who know what it is like to be blown off or brushed aside by the "big women on campus." Not only do they have the same good looks- they have the added attraction of having compassion and understanding!" These ladies are especially sensitive to feelings so treat with great care, friendship, and dignity!

By the way... a super little secret, just to you... no one else so everybody else SCRAM! ok here it is....

Ever ballroom dance? Know anyplace or anyone who can show you? I've heard it said more times than you can shake a stick, from women ... The man who can ballroom dance is "hunted down" by ladies on the dance floor.

I'm happily married my self. She's the daughter of ballroom instructors. Guess what I learned to do??? It is soooo much fun. Also,,,, you're at that perfect age,. It'll all hit fast enough. Good luck guy!

Answer 2

Sophomore! Are you worried about not having a date for a school dance? Be yourself!!!Only go out for track or football if you like that kind of stuff,music is cool....it will probably stay with you longer than any sport would.You really get into playing an instrument and not only will it give you an expressive outlet that you can pick up and do any time,(unlike football which you need a group for)you can be by yourself or in group when you play music.
As for getting a girl,as a parent myself I would say you are too young,but I know that high school is more complicated then that. So just be yourself,and don't be afraid to ask her may be just to talk at first...phone conversations is a good place to start.Good Luck in school.

Answer 3

You are way to focused on getting a girlfriend. That is not at all what high school is all about. High school is about education and furthering your career. Also trying to do your best so you can go into a good college to get a good job. I'm not saying that there's only time for education but if you start thinking you aren't cool if you don't have a girlfriend you will start acting different ways just to get a girl. Trust me, if you be yourself, someone sooner or later will become attracted to you.
Also, I'm going to be a sophomore this coming school year too. So its not like I'm way older then you or anything. If this doesn't help hit me up via email.

Answer 4

I wouldnt take up any hobbies or sports just to impress anyone. If you really want a girlfriend, you are going to want them to like what you do. I guess the biggest thing to do now is think about what you are looking in a person? Make sure you can offer those same things back to a girlfriend and take a leap of faith..approach a lady, smile and start a conversation..let it go from there. Women love honesty, I have yet to find a woman that likes to be lied to, so that is atleast one sure thing to get you in the door. Work on your confidence and make sure you believe what you want others to see in you. When it shines, all will come to you. Good luck!!!

Answer 5

Hi Mr.Abused, Well join the club. unless you are drop-dead gorgeous you can't pass trying your luck at more than one girl at one place, if you like somebody (not just the body) try to be around her in a natural way (don't stalk!) soon you will get a chance to help her in a small way ..do it with all yr heart ..find out whats important to her .. if you get to know that some day is special for her, ..wish her, give her flowers. Make her feel that she is important and ... she will see you as that special someone, she has always been waiting for. Just remember, everything takes time, if you can spend 2 hrs in a gym for 6 months to get that hint of abs, then this is something worth spending yr time on, Best of Luck! :o)

Answer 6

Be you. Are you a jock or a geek? Whatever, be you. Be confidently you. They look for confidence and honesty. They also look for honest complements and being included. Go straight up to the girl you like and say, "I'm going to ----[fill in the blanks], you want to join me?" If she says no, then just say okay and go to ---[whatever you said you were going to do, honesty, remember]. Then pick another. Don't look lonely, don't act lonely, or desperate, or scared, just screw up your courage and offer to include one of them in your life for this event or that. Oh, and don't ask one, then turn and ask another nearby, unless you do it like you are needling the one who turned you down (you've got to be smiling, to pull that one off). You would be amazed how the jealousy potential will get you good dates. Otherwise, just do what you said and come back to go fishing again later. If you are fishing with fun and confidence, the fish will sometimes seem to be jumping into your boat. If you are geeky stupid though, that probably won't happen, but confidence will get you miles further than desperation. Good luck.

Answer 7

do you live in spokane washington? thats my old area code! anyhow, my husband is the king of sexy geeks, and he did not get his first girlfriend until he was 18. poor fella. he says the same things abouthis high school life that you are. I on the otherhand had boyfriends but the were all the nerdy types. yes, some girls go nuts for those quiet, smart, and nervous types. just be yourself. good girlfriend bets are the artsy and intellectual types. go to peace marches, rallys, and libraries. dont be afraid to start up a real conversation that sparks more that boy/girl interest. women ih high school are discovering the world beyond boys, makeup and fashion. they are starting to see the real world and ask questions abouthhow they fit into it. talk to girls but LISTEN to girls. you are soooo gonna get a a girlfriend!

Answer 8

XXXXXXXXXX first of all, I think you've lost your mind. Why would you put your phone number on the internet. Ofcourse there are good people but there are so many perferts on the internet. You're taking a big chance at inviting them to call your home. Secondly You also wrote the name of your school which is the second no no. Never give out so much infomation about your personal business on the computer. Enough said XXXXXXXXXXX

Answer 9

You can't get someone to like you. When they say to "be yourself" it's so very true! One tip - join a few clubs at school. This way, you can get involved with an activity you are really interested in. If there are any girls in the same club, then at least you know that you will already share something in common. It's a great way to meet girls and have something to talk to them about. And of course, in order to put things in your favor, make sure you are always neatly dressed and try to be approachable and kind to people in general. Good luck!

Answer 10

first off, be neither a jock, nor a geek, just be yourself.... however, if yourself is really really nerdy, try to be a little less of an idiot. you have to first make friends with them. always keep cool, don't panic, and at really nice. propose to help with a math problem or something like that! then if you keep talking and she shows that she got the point and she i starting to like you, ask her if she wants to go to the movies with you... have something already arranged like scary movie 4 or something like that. if you are too shy, invite some other friends along too. ask her if she wants to join you guys. if things go well, ask her out again. and soon you'll have a girl! if not, try someone else! hope this helps! i would help more but i gotta go! good luck!!!

Answer 11

First, don't be in a hurry to get into a relationship. The wrong relationship will be a heartache. Second, be yourself, and the right kind of girl will be attracted to you. Third, be a good guy, friendly to everyone. Girls like that. Work on making friends first, and the rest will follow. Best wishes.