This guy i talked about some days ago--i talked about does he still want to be involve with me. We was txtn each other all this morning--it was mainly about sexual talk. I went over his house and we both had sex--i was kind of nervous but i was horny for him. He kept telln me to calm down--i was on top up him and he told me relax--i wanted to ride him, but he wanted to do all the work slowly--but i wanted it fast. All of a sudden he just stop doing what he was doing and said you need a dildo--What's up wit dat? He also said somebody need to teach you how to have sex. (Im 24, and only had 5 partners)But, we had sex once before and it was great. And i said what am i doing wrong--but he would never tell me. He told me to leave--i was very hurt A while later I ask him do he want to finish what we started and he said "no thanks, u need a dildo".As before i told him my feelings in the other questions--dat i might be n love with him. like to hear from as many responders as possible
2006-07-19 07:27:01 · 9 answers · asked by Ms. Attitude 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he wanted to slow it down, perhaps he wanted to "make love" to you, and take his time exploring each other, and got the impression from you that you were just in a hurry to get off.
2006-07-19 07:32:02 · answer #1 · answered by Andi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that was harsh? Maybe he felt you were to rushed/excited and he's into the more slow rythmic action. You both just might have different types of expectations while having sex. I wouldn't take it personally but just find someone to match your technique.
2006-07-19 07:33:03 · answer #2 · answered by shae 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well for 25 your grammar is horrible learn how to use the English Language and then work on your sex skills
2006-07-19 07:31:55 · answer #3 · answered by italianprincess_fl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sound like it was to good for him. You was about to make him *** to fast. When a guy says to slow down in the middle of things it's for a reason. Don't worry he call you!
2006-07-19 07:35:36 · answer #4 · answered by L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he's wanted to go slow and be on top, wasn't willing to adapt to the fact you wanted to be on top and go fast, got bent out of shape, and insulted you.
Lose him, you can find better than this -- he only cares about himself.
2006-07-19 07:32:28 · answer #5 · answered by Roger D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you were to aggressive, don't worry about it, it's his problem not yours, some guys like to take the lead in sex and are intimidated by Womens Sexuality.
you just wanted yours, good for you. LOL
2006-07-19 07:34:32 · answer #6 · answered by SirenSings 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that he finished and dint wanna pleasure you. I think he is implying that you are loose and he couldnt feel you. Maybe you should just not be such a hootchie mama!
2006-07-19 07:32:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats just mean...
If he really really liked you he wouldn't care about if you were good or not... Ask him whats his problem.
2006-07-19 07:36:04 · answer #8 · answered by Haley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is a porn addicted man forget about him
2006-07-19 07:46:33 · answer #9 · answered by khalid himmo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋