why do i have a dumb *** ungraful and unappreciative ***** for a sister in law. she cusses out her baby and yells at it and she yells at my mom when she doesnt do anything right. my baby died 3 months ago. and apparently she does not care. my husband wrote dumbass on her car ..the only reason why he did that was because she is a ungrateful *****. I told my dad i will call the DHS on her .
2006-07-19 07:25:19 · 9 answers · asked by Cartman 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
im just blowin off steam
2006-07-19 07:29:59 · update #1
She sounds really really angry and disrespectful. I would not stoop to her level - all you do is fuel the fire. If she is endangering her children then yes call the authorities on her - but DO NOT do it to get even. As far as her yelling at your mother that is between your mother and her stay out of it. Remember two wrongs never make it right.
It is always sad to lose a child - I am truly sorry for you recent loss. Please don't let the loss of your child stop you from enjoying life and maybe having another child. Your cloud will have a silver lining you just have to wait for the right cloud,
2006-07-19 07:35:06 · answer #1 · answered by middle aged and love it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Twelve step programs, originally AA and Alanon, work on the basis of a person's realizing when things are unmanageable and turning it over to a higher power. They have adapted them to all kinds of situations.
You all have losses and issues to work through, but the only person you can change is yourself. Work on yourself. Spend some time grieving your child. Pamper yourself and take care of your husband because he needs to greive as well.
Lack of gratitude from your sister in law can be painful, but you can't change that. You can't make her do anything she doesn't want to do so let her go and leave her to the powers that be.
2006-07-19 07:50:23 · answer #2 · answered by C R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the only problem with marrying someone is you marry into a whole new family and unfortunately sometimes they SUCK. Stay strong and deal with her ONLY when you have to. She is a small entity to a whole bigger picture (your husband) Sorry about your loss. You and your hubby need to take care of each other and lose the losers in your lives. Good luck
2006-07-19 07:32:53 · answer #3 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear about your baby. I think you need to try and talk to your sister-in-law. If she will not listen i would do what is best for her baby. That baby does not deserve to be cussed at. God bless you. I will pray for your family. Get right with God ans your life will be alot better.
2006-07-19 07:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by housewives5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure that is the right thing to do....dont just call DHS on her because you dont like her make sure its done for all the right reasons....remember a child needs their mother even if she is a *****
2006-07-19 07:30:03 · answer #5 · answered by barbie c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its her situation. your perfect wager is to stay out of it, except shes being abused mentally or bodily. if he cheats and he or she takes him decrease back it is her difficulty. If she fairly does no longer see how badly shes being dealt with its likely because she does no longer imagine she benefits any more desirable. coach her she does! let her comprehend she is worth extra and doubtless she'll smarten up.
2016-11-06 20:21:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok sounds like you all have issues. I suggest you all get some help!!
2006-07-19 07:29:16 · answer #7 · answered by Mechelle B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know why
sorry to hear your sister in law is that bad
why did your brother choose her?
2006-07-19 07:30:08 · answer #8 · answered by T^^L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sucks to be you! IS there a question here?
2006-07-19 07:29:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋