i have a sister that has an abusive girl friend and my littlle brother(7) watches porno how can i get away from them durimg the day i live in the middle of nowhere and i dont have a liscences
2006-07-19 07:20:56 · 21 answers · asked by R.J. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Take them to church
2006-07-19 07:32:35 · answer #1 · answered by TexasBoy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You didn't say how old your sister is but if she is younger than you, tell her friend to get out until she can learn to treat people with respect. If she is older, it might be a little more difficult to do this. You might want to talk to your sister and tell her that real friends treat each other with respect and don't abuse each other. As for you little brother, he's only 7 years old...where is he getting the porn and why isn't anyone putting a stop to it? Take it away, unplug the tv, block the access to the internet...do something. Doesn't sound like there is much parental supervision or guidance in your home and that may be part of the problem. If you must get out of the house, I suggest you get yourself a bicycle.
2006-07-19 14:40:19 · answer #2 · answered by greeneyedgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where's your mother?? No 7 yr. old should be watching porno. Get rid of his movies and program your T.V.'s parental controls so he cannot watch certain channels. If your mother or father isn't going to anything about it then do him a favor and take control. Does your sisters abusive gf live with you? Tell her to take a hike. Tell your sister that she shouldn't be taking abuse from anyone and it will only get worse. If you have to get away, walk. Or invest in a bike. Tell your parents about your concerns. I know it's hard to live out in the middle of nowhere at a young age, since my memory holds walking 5 miles just to go swimming but it wasn't too hard after I took the first steps. Now I walk 75 feet to swim. Those days are behind me now and yours will be behind you one day also. Hang in there.
2006-07-19 14:42:29 · answer #3 · answered by windandwater 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters, take the porno away from your brother! 7 year old kids should not be watching that garbage. Where are your parents? and when the sister's girlfriend get abusive, call the cops. Take your brother out for walks in the surrounding countryside, and get him involved in finding cool things to look at in nature.
2006-07-19 14:26:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live in the middle of nowhere there isn't much to do but go outside,hang out with friends and find new ones maybe.Talk to someone about your brother.Like your mom or your dad.They can hide tapes(if thats the matter)or block those channels.And the sister has an abusive gf,so i don't know what to do about that.It depends if your sister is older or younger.She can beat the crap out of her back if she is older. Or if she is younger then she could find some way to ignore her.Find somewhere else to go.
Miranda
2006-07-19 14:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where on earth our your parents??? Running away will not solve the problem. Tell you sisters girlfriend to take a hike and remove the filthy porn movie away from your 7 year old ( little ) brother. How old are you? If you don't have a license then you aren't 16 as of yet. Where is your parents???
2006-07-19 14:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by whenwhalesfly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say what? Your sister has an abusive girlfriend? Your 7 year old brother is watching porn? Where are your parents? Why don't you take the porn away from your brother and tell your sister's girlfriend to take a hike??
2006-07-19 14:23:56 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to help out your siblings. I have many of them and I know what it is like to just want to get away from them and have no where to go at times. But if one is being abused, help her. Come on stick up for her. Your her brother for Christs sake. And get your brother to do other things with his time. maybe talk to him about sex and tell him about aid and Clementia and such. That may make him feel less like having sex or even watching it.
But if you really don't want to help out your family, something good to do is run. It takes out a lot of frustration and really helps you relax. And if you can't run very far, try walking. And don't worry that there is no where to go. If you are at least walking you aren't dealing with your family and you are far from there.
Good luck to you and your family.
2006-07-19 14:32:45 · answer #8 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a bicycle. RIde the bus. Go to the library. Join a club. Go to the park and play ball.
Also, a 7-year old watchin porn can do irreparable damage to his relationships later. I would talk to your parents about getting this away from him.
2006-07-19 14:23:34 · answer #9 · answered by ksjazzguitar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit complaining. Your life sounds like a walk in the park with a jolly picnic included compared to mine.
2006-07-19 14:30:18 · answer #10 · answered by Meredith L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go outside and find a hobby, paint, run, collect rocks or something. Maybe you should be a good role model and help them out!
2006-07-19 14:22:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋