im 15 and pregnant and i live wit my gramma and she is very religious and i dont know how to tell her?

Question

i had a one night stand wit my friend chris and now i am pregnant

Answer 1

1. repent to your God
2. post your question in the proper category
3. tell your Grandma and take your medicine (accept responsibility)
4. tell his parents

Answer 2

well, the first thing you need to do is try to overcome your panick. talking to a psychologist or the school counselor, or one of your proffesors would be a good idea. if you can't find any of these at your school, try going to a family planning center for advice and counseling. but remember that the little creature that caught life in you depends on your decisions - and your decisions only. don't let anybody decide whether you should keep the baby or have an abortion.
as for your grandmother... if she's the closest person you have, she will help you go through this experience. you say she's a religious person? well, a good approach would be to tell her that God has chosen a cross or a burden for each of us and that, right now, your cross might be an unexpected baby. see how she reacts. i doubt she will suggest an abortion, but the truth is you can never tell in these cases.
oh, and another important thing. get a doctor to check on your physical state A.S.A.P. see if there are any risks related to pregnancy at such an early age. make sure you know everything there is to know before making any decision.
i'm really sorry this is happening to you....

Answer 3

I know you feel like your life is over. Does Chris know? What are you planning to do keep it, abort it, adopt it out? I would make sure you were really pregnant. Every county has a clinic where you can go to be seen by a doctor. There are also pregnancy crisis centers. There are also women's shelter's you can go to. This isn't the end of the world. Where are your parents? Could they help. You need to sit down with Chris and figure out what you are going to do. Your health is at risk though, and you need to get help, if not from Grandma, from somewhere. E-mail me if you need to chat

Answer 4

Oh, sweetheart, this must be scary for you. First of all DON'T consider abortion!!! You will have so many many regrets for the rest of your life if you do. That baby needs to go up for adoption. I have a friend who has been trying so hard to have a baby and can't.
As far as telling your grandma, I understand how that would be really hard. I don't know what I would do, but I do know that your grandma will most likely be far more understanding and sympathetic than you think. Good luck with everything! God be with you!

P.S. Don't listen to the jerks who are griping about this being posted in the cats section--that's just fine. Go ahead and post it wherever you want.

Answer 5

alright let me get this straight u are pregnant with a cat?or this Chris guy is a cat. OR this wouldn't be in the cat section right! but otherwise if feel really bad for you,but you do know that buying a condom would have been cheaper than an abortion or raising the child right?Tell your Grandma she might be upset but she loves you and hopefully will try to help you in this situation.
Good luck
Jess

Answer 6

This in the wrong section but I will answer anyways. I had my first son at 17. The easiest way is just to tell her. If you are afraid to tell her alone have a meeting with your pastor and then ya'll two tell her together. You need to do this asap because if you plan to keep the baby you need to be seen bu an OB throughout your pregnancy. If you are thinking of an abortion time will run out of you before you tell her. And you will be past the point of having it done.

Best of luck.

Answer 7

Please do not hesitate to tell your gramma. I am sure she loves you very much and no matter what you tell her she will stand by you. If you plan on having the baby you will need medical care as soon as possible for your health and your baby's. Just know that if you decide not to keep the baby you can always surrender the baby for adoption. Open adoption is a wonderful alternative for you. Please do take care of yourself and good luck with gramma.

Answer 8

OK, is this a cat story??

Ummmmmm, seriously, you are too young to have sex, let alone have a baby.... Just come out and tell her, why wait, not like she wont know eventually...... I feel sorry for you, really, cuz your life as a child is over.. I may sound harsh, but, its true..... Gonna have to face the music, and feel the consequences, Grammas are all loving, you'll be OK..... take care!

Answer 9

I think one night stand or a lot of nigths makes no difference here. That's not the point, just be honest with her or go and talk with your school counselor or some confident person like a pastor, or a priest and ask them for counsel before talk with your grandma.

Answer 10

what does being pregnet got to do with animal? but anyways u need to tell grandma she will either except it or make u leave. but u really shouldnt get an abortion. i dont beleive in it if u do u are classified in my eyes a killer. they have a right to have a chance to live on earth to. if u dont want the baby there is always adoption. and u never no maybe grandma will except it and love the child. but u need to be honest with her. and his parents should no to. but first if u havent already u need to tell the father of the baby

Answer 11

And this relates to Cats how...???

First off, in general one should have already learned how to write before becoming a parent. It's "I'm", not "im"; "I" not "i"; "with", not "wit"; "grandma", not "gramma"; and "don't", not "dont". Surprisingly, you know how to spell "pregnant". Very interesting.