My boyfriend has a son and the mother is over steping her boundries. Do I need to suck it up and give in to her...liv eour lives according to her rules because she may take the baby away from my boyfriend?
2006-07-19 07:14:48 · 3 answers · asked by TueRef11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
XXXXXXXXXXXXX unfortunately a woman can be a real b if she want to especially when she has the upper hand, meaning custody of he exes kids. The only thing he can do is see a lawyer and make the financial plans with him. If he can't afford it then the ex will rule him til she marries or til the kids are all over 18. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-19 07:20:16 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend has joint custody, she can't threaten to take it away from him. That's court ordered. You do what you can to live peacefully between the two, but you have to be able to compormise. She shouldn't be holding all the strings, but she IS the child's mom. Keep in mind that of the two of you, she has much more say than you will with the child.
2006-07-19 07:19:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he has to set up boundaries he is responsible to provide for the baby who has custony? Your boyfriend may be orsdered to pay for certain things but using the child as apawn is wrong the child deserved to have access to both parents
2006-07-19 07:21:35 · answer #3 · answered by Elaine F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋