ok my girlfriend and i broke up after 5 yrs. we just moved in together about 4 months ago, and still have 2 months left on the lease. I know that deep down shes the one i want to be with, but i know for now that cant happen. Ive already told her how i feel, but she feels that she is too young, and feels scared that she will stay with me without knowing what else is out there. she still says that she loves me, and i know that she does, but its so hard for me to let go of someone who was my best friend, my everything. What can i do to make it known to her that i am here for her in the end, and that i will always love her? How do i not think about what shes doing or who shes with? i dont want to ruin things if there is a future for us, wich i really hope there is.
2006-07-19 07:12:29 · 3 answers · asked by t2006s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm kind of in your situation. Didn't live with her, but we were/still are really close. Want her back, she thinks she's too young, yada yada. I feel your pain. There is nothing you can do to make yourself stop thinking about it. You just have to deal. Don't be an *** to her when she starts hanging around other guys, as will inevitably happen. It will just chase her farther away. Be cool. Let her know you're deeply hurt, but don't whine all the time. Bide your time, if she's the one, she'll come back. Hopefully she will realize that what she really wants is something she already had.
2006-07-19 07:20:53 · answer #1 · answered by thekilierdonut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just like that old saying if you love something let it go if it comes back then it was meant to be. You really need to give her her space and while she is having space take time for yourself as well don't just sit around and morn the loss of a friend get out there and know that you are still someone even with out her
2006-07-19 07:17:45 · answer #2 · answered by unhappyinin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was somewhat in the same situation. Broke up last week, lived together for 4 months was together before we lived together. He is my best friend, but in our case it was mutual. I would say make yourself busy and get your own life. Still be friends with her though because once she realizes nothing better is out there you could possibly get back together. Best of luck to you.
2006-07-19 07:29:37 · answer #3 · answered by Kenya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋