okay no sarcastic crazies, I know its alot. but heres my questions. I've recieved 88 E-mails in 1 month from my ex, these are all response emails. If he's still contacting me, but telling me in these emails that he is done with the relationship is that real? He came to see me last week and when I was with him I touched his cheek and told him I was sorry I left him, he started to cry, but is insitant on not getting back together......my feelings for him are overwhelming at times, I know he was the same way for me. we have been apart 1 month and I left because he said I was a different person when my kids were around. they are 5 years and 10 months. he was hurt by me putting them first. we only had them 3 days a week....???
does his communication mean more then he leads on?
2006-07-19 07:02:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he still loves you and wants you back, however he is trying to honor and respect your dicision (Breaking up) remember you broke up with him. When he says "He's done with the relationship" NO its not real, I think he is lieing, he still wants you back, but he can't force you to love him back or take him back. He is showing you love and respect by saying that. [Does that make any sense??] question? do you want him back. I you don't, you have to make it clear to him, VERY CLEAR, that you just want to be good friends and parents. By rubbing your hands on his cheek, your saying to him, "I still want you, but I don't know if I want you, their still may be HOPE for us, If we can work through this I might take you back". Your probably not saying all of that, but I think thats how he is taking it. Thats why its Important for him to know exaclty where you stand, so that he can move on knowing their IS NO hope, or try to work on being true friends.
I hope this in not confusing for you to read, I did my best trying to convey a mans perspective on this issue.
Also If you guys do get back together, I beleive very strongly in parents being mentors to their children. If you guys can understand that the most important thing you can give to your children, is to show them how to love your spouse, kids learn how to give and recieve love based on what they see and hear from their parents. So if your priorites are on the children vs. the father, that will cause an unbalance in the family's relationship.
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2016-11-02 08:40:15 · answer #2 · answered by sturms 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it is definitely more than he's would have you believe. I think that he's saying that its nothing because he's still hurting and is afraid of what might happen if you did get back together and it failed again.
2006-07-19 07:11:00 · answer #3 · answered by DIRT MCGIRT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to be with a man who doesn't love your children? He sounds like a jealous, controlling person to me.
2006-07-19 07:08:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he wants you back
2006-07-19 08:48:56 · answer #5 · answered by boxing_fan_4_wlad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is somewhat hotter, adjust to him.
2006-07-19 07:08:02 · answer #6 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea it is.
2006-07-19 07:07:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋