my neighbor and i would stay up until 5 am just talkin, then go to work come back and stay talking again for four days- then one night we went up to the jacuzzi and we started makin out, well we ended up back at my place and what had to happen did- the thing is i'm not like that i usually wait up to at least 6 weeks and i've never been with someone who wasn't my boyfriend can anyone who's been through this explain what happens next??????
2006-07-19 06:59:42 · 4 answers · asked by popis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well wait a week and see what happens. Sex usually changes things between two people. Figure out what you would like to have happen, either things go back the way there were, you continue to have casual sex, or you pursue a possible relationship. Then see what it is he wants. Does he think it was a once shot deal, or does he want to keep having casual sex or is it a relationship he may want? I wouldn't play games, if no contact in a week, then go over and knock on his door and sit down for a chat. No use losing a friendship if you can help it.
2006-07-19 07:25:51 · answer #1 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can continue this way w/o any formal committment, and there would be nothing wrong with that. the best thing to do is to make sure you and him are on the same page. you don't want to get hurt if he decides to have the relationship casual and you don't.
2006-07-19 14:27:44 · answer #2 · answered by gurrrly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let whatever happens happen and if you dont feel horrible about it then whatever. as long as you feel good about it and the other person feels good about it...and when the time comes ask them if it can ever become and actual relationship.
me and this guy had the same exact thing and i dont regret it....but just dont gey yourself hurt k?
2006-07-19 14:04:38 · answer #3 · answered by Alyssa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might stop talking to you
2006-07-19 14:04:14 · answer #4 · answered by Clarinutty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋