2006-07-19 06:54:52 · 8 answers · asked by Jessica S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Your husband is trying to get you to realize that they are still controlling you. This shows that your husband loves you. If you don't put and end to you mom and sister, your husband may speak up and make things worse.
2006-07-19 07:30:09 · answer #1 · answered by sunflowerlizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is right to be mad. Because they are not just using you...they are using HIM too. It sounds like he loves yoou very much and is naturally angry when you are hurt by a third party. I say you do two things.
Let your husband handle this the best way he see fit and you just live with with his solution.
Stick up for yourself with your Mom and Sisiter...and tell them NO...or get bent or something.
The more you let them use your family the more they WILL use your family....remember what happens to you...happens to your FAMILY.
PS. your wedding vows(assuming a christian wedding) say "Forsaking ALL others".
2006-07-19 07:02:24 · answer #2 · answered by akebhart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your husband should come first and be happy he's on your side and cares enough for you that he doesn't want people to use you and hurt you. stand up to your mom and sister they should not treat anyone that way and you deserve way better. listen to your husband, he hates the way they treat you because he loves you
2006-07-19 06:59:37 · answer #3 · answered by hell_in_a_handbasket 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a good thing!
Your husband loves you and doesn't like it when he sees that someone is taking advantage of you, or is hurting you. Good for him (and you)! It means he really cares.
You should thank him and let him know how much you appreciate it. Also, let him know that you can handle it and that you'd prefer that he not say anything to them to avoid making things worse.
2006-07-19 07:00:23 · answer #4 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he mad at them for treating you this way, or is he mad at you for taking it? Perhaps the two of you could talk about how to set limits, what you are willing to do for your family and what you really don't want to do. And then stick to it, and learn to say no. They will try to make you feel bad, guilty, etc., but it's the only way to make them respect your boundries.
2006-07-19 07:01:09 · answer #5 · answered by mightymite1957 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what you're asking. Your husband is probably frustrated to see the woman he loves treated poorly by her own family and not do anything to stop it.
2006-07-19 06:59:04 · answer #6 · answered by Mr J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's mad because he loves you.
2006-07-19 06:58:45 · answer #7 · answered by ♥--->{Shauntee}<---♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree w/ the first answer
2006-07-19 07:08:22 · answer #8 · answered by unhappyinin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋