he dont have a phone, so I went back to the bar to see him on tuesday and we had fun playing darts, we kissed, he asked me back but I couldnt that night, then I went on wednesday to see him and he hardly talked to me, so I didnt say much to him, went back on friday and he didnt say 2 words to me, I asked to a movie but he gave the " I have to work" line. he told his friends that he really liked me and I know I really liked him. I cant stop thinking of him, what do I do? my heart hasnt felt like this since my ex in about 2 years.
2006-07-19 06:41:51 · 21 answers · asked by just a single dad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ahh im glad to heAR u found somone that can make you happy. i am in the same situation almost. mabye he is just shy. u said u were at the bar so mabye he tlk when hes drinking lol dont purse him too much men dont like that. be non chalant or however u spell it and when u see him juss give a hi how u doing kinda thing. dont let him know your too into him that will scare him away. just go with the flow but dont crowd him. take it slow. if its ment to be it will be,,
2006-07-19 06:46:02 · answer #1 · answered by erin s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the wonderful world of single dating. I'm afraid I'd have to become a nun before I'd put myself through that torture again. While this might not be the answer you want, his behavior should be a bright, big red flag to you. He might not be stable and surely wouldn't be someone that you'd want a long term relationship with. It almost sounds like he is either pouting or is manic. Consider him your bar buddy and know that the fun you have with him is fleeting. But...you know that this really means that you are still sexy, fun, and very attractive to others...go for it. I tell girls and guys alike...boys grow on trees and there are thousands just waiting for you to pick them. I hope you find a soul mate.
2006-07-19 06:46:57 · answer #2 · answered by Chainsawmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he won't talk to you anymore he most not have been that interested in you. May be he just wanted a one night stand or someone to just hang out with for the moment. The best thing may be just to move on. I know that's easier said than done but while you are bummed out about him not going out with you, you may miss a great opportunity with another guy. Good luck. I hope everything turns out for the best.
2006-07-19 06:48:26 · answer #3 · answered by babybro35 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In our world of electronic technology he doesn't have a phone? Why?
You've made it clear you are interested, so now it's up to him...give him your #, if he really wants to see you he'll find a way to call (borrow a friend's cell, use a pay phone, call from work, etc)...
Don't get too tied up in someone after only 2 weeks...especially when you've not been getting warm fuzzies from him lately...
2006-07-19 06:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing hard to get probably because you did not go with him the first time he asked you. Give it time. Keep off for a while. Then call him.It will work out.
2006-07-19 06:48:48 · answer #5 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not treating you in a manner that says he feels the same way about you. Let him go and move on. If he wants to buck up his ideas and reign in his bad attitude, he can come to you. Have some self-respect! :-)
2006-07-19 06:44:15 · answer #6 · answered by ♪ Nickels ♪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i does not circulate. You no longer often understand him. He ought to look to be large yet what if he replaced once you get carry of obtainable, he ought to handle you as he enjoyed and you will have not have been given any the place to run. If he had any respectable intentions he does not be asking you to circulate - no longer so early in the courting.
2016-10-08 02:26:24 · answer #7 · answered by vanderbilt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know his address so send flowers and a card. Tell him that you want to see him again and give him your number. Don't push yourself on him, he knows you like him. Leave it up to him to contact you. If he feels the same way about you, he'll call. Good luck.
2006-07-19 06:46:29 · answer #8 · answered by aprilc232 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes pulling the tao of steve on you. buy a copy of the rules and play him back. games are games luv. play them, but dont think youre gonna settle down with a guy that starts playing them without first letting you know the game is on. it isnt fairplay.
2006-07-19 06:46:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know where he lives so just stop by w/a case of beer. I'm sure he wouldn't be rude and slam the door on your face, and then take it from there.
2006-07-19 06:47:11 · answer #10 · answered by threesoares 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋