My soon-to-be-ex-spouse asked me to leave 2 and a half months ago. Fine, I left. A few weeks later, I met another woman. I have been dating her since that time. She has a young son, 7 years old. I have gone out with the two of them many times. I also have two kids of my own. And I am still involved in their lives. My new lady has not met my kids (yet?). Recently, I went on a small vacation with my ladyfriend, her son, and some of her friends. We had a couple of disagreements about things while away. I thought that I had patched things up and that all was fine. We get back. Not too long after, she asks to see the photos in my camera and removes photos of herself and her son. I am very hurt. I told her that I am not stupid and that I am smart enough to know when something isn't right. I told her that if she wanted, I would give her space for a couple of weeks. She told me that she needs to think and be by herself for a few days. What should I do? Any advice please?
2006-07-19 06:28:36 · 8 answers · asked by Dale Sellers 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When someone says they need space, DONT take it as a personal attack. Give them space... Do your own thing, hang out with your friends, dont call, dont visit. If she wants you in her life, she will contact you. I need lots of personal space. The people in my life know this about me, and when i say that i want to take a couple of days for myself, it is understood that its nothing against anyone else, it is simply that i need some time for me.
2006-07-19 07:10:54 · answer #1 · answered by AJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look man, if you just left your ex 2 months ago and now your trying to be involved with someone else. I seems to me that your having a problem with being alone. You need to have a relationship with yourself before you can have one with someone else. Don't be afraid to be by yourself. Pray about the next women that comes into your life. Don't be so quick to get involve, someone is out there for you. You must have patients, Give this women her space. If it's meant to be, she will be back, if not oh well. Spend time with your own kids, not somebody else's. Get close to them and talk to them. That's the relationship you should work on.
2006-07-19 06:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Good P. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I see as i have study your tale is that you assume a lot about her. She stated she felt lonely - why may she experience lonely once you're there 24/7? ought to or not it is that you aren't to any extent further loving her interior the way she needs yet in the way you imagine she does? Take some days, imagine about the way you've loved her. call her and tell her that you go with to take some days to imagine. I had a gf that I did a lot for and hung out with yet she felt a similar way. interior the top she necessary extra of a actual and emotional connection - i do not recommend sex; I recommend retaining her and under no circumstances preserving some thing.
2016-10-14 23:16:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants her space to date others, so give it to her and you do the same... Life is too short when you are young to tie yourself down to one person.
2006-07-19 06:36:24 · answer #4 · answered by Richard M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is pretty upset about something. Let her do her thinking for a few days. Hopefully she will open up and tell you what is really the matter.
2006-07-19 06:42:22 · answer #5 · answered by JanLeo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her space. She will call you when she is ready
2006-07-19 07:05:33 · answer #6 · answered by Glenn H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eff that chick... yo shes out there doing her... u might wanna do u
2006-07-19 06:50:45 · answer #7 · answered by AUSTIN C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON......I DON'T KNOW WHY PEOPLE HANG ON TO SITUATIONS THEY KNOW ARE GOOD, LIFE IS TO SHORT TO WASTE, MY ADVICE MOVE ON
2006-07-19 06:45:33 · answer #8 · answered by michael h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋