Seriously.. The pictures were taken about a year ago, and she sent them to him in email around the same time. He asked her recently to burn them to a CD and send them to him. He lives all the way across the US... I found out by reading her text messages and then seeing burned CD list on her computer. What would you guys do? I really do love her and I dont want to over-react, but something tells me that even if hes already seen them, thats ethically wrong.
2006-07-19 06:24:32 · 10 answers · asked by Chuck 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
KICK HER @$$ OUT!!!!! It don't matter how old these pictures are. She is your girlfriend and if she truly loved you the she wouldn't be flaunting herself to an old flame. I would be absolutley devastated if that happened to me.
2006-07-19 06:31:50 · answer #1 · answered by Christian H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even if she hasn't physically been with her ex, she is cheating on you in her heart. If she was as committed to you as you are to her she would never have sent him the email and wouldn't dream of burning him a CD of her in lingerie. Sit down and have heart-to-heart talk with her. Of course by bringing this up she's going to know you've been snooping. Even if you feel justified because of what you found, snooping in her text messages and emails and CD list is wrong. Having said that, you need to know if she really wants this relationship. Is she willing to cut off all contact with her ex? If not, it's time for you to move on. It'll hurt like hell, but your broken heart will mend. Then you'll be ready to find a woman who wants the same thing in a relationship that you do. But, respect her privacy. No more snooping! God bless!
2006-07-19 06:58:18 · answer #2 · answered by celticwoman777 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take pictures of you ******* her and send them to.... hell send them to me to if she looks good, lol...
Pointe being she has feeling for him should concern you, but you cant expect that not to happen... The problem is she doesnt see anything wronge with contacting him and acting out on her feelings... so my sugestion is.....
1:Send me a copy of the pics of her in lingerie..
2:take some really hot pictures of her in actin...
3:send me a copy of all the pics..
4:explore weather this really bothers you or actually turns you on, because you sound like it does but are not sure if that ok...
5:talk to her after you have figured out the previous question...
2006-07-19 06:36:19 · answer #3 · answered by sickofit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very wrong...not fer nothin, Id drop her. If shes pulling this stuff, what else is she doing (or is going to do). Sounds like shes high maintenance and needs some attention by any means...... either that, or shes still got something for the ex.... either way, too much drama.....dump her and move on
2006-07-19 06:29:35 · answer #4 · answered by zoinks22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be heated. Really heated. She is your girlfriend now and even if hes seen them its not his place to see them now. Throw something-that always makes me feels better
2006-07-19 06:29:45 · answer #5 · answered by designsjm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its time to call it quits... She is looking for a "new dude" there fella, and it just aint gonna be you!
I guess your just not exciting to her enough, to ask her goofy things like that, eh? hmmm
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-07-19 06:28:56 · answer #6 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront her. she sounds like she may still have feelings for her ex and that is bad news.
2006-07-19 06:28:11 · answer #7 · answered by Steph 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a disaster in the making! I know you love her, but she is going to hurt you. Please move on.
2006-07-19 06:31:41 · answer #8 · answered by long_ebony_locs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its wrong, she's with you and sending her ex pictures of herself?????? thats f**ked up and I would be PISSED OFF
2006-07-19 06:27:56 · answer #9 · answered by jada_24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her, she is not the one.
2006-07-19 06:29:07 · answer #10 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋