You have met a woman online and feel an instant connection to her, you feel that you are soul mates, and she agrees. You want to marry her and have discussed wether or not to have kids. You chat on the phone with her every few days, but on her last call to you she was short and had to hang up. She has apologized for that via leaving a message on your phone, she has also text messaged you asking if you are okay. Why would she not hear from you?
2006-07-19 06:18:47 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Again, it's b/c your conversations with him has been seriously DEEP. You 2 have spoken about children and marriage. Two things some men are afraid of!! lol. Marriage was shocking enough for him now the talk of kids added more shock hehe, (shock used as a sense of expression), that's 2 strikes and the fact that you two have not met in person yet makes him even more nervous. All this converastion has finally merinated and is now settling down into his system (mind). He is now re-thinking all of it. He's suprised he is talking about something this serious, he fears that he has fallen for you. It's ok. I'm glad you had this conversation with him b/c you both will know what to expect, what you both want in the future, your dreams, goals etc. Nothing is kept in the dark. There are no hidden secrets. You both are doing great as far as conversation goes. What he is thinking about is probably how well will the first meeting go, nothing else past that point. Women like to think farther ahead than men, it's a fact lol. We are thinkers when it comes to relationship (I'm already thinking about my b/f and I having children in the future-the kid's names-only if he knew HAHA) What your guy is doing is pretty much expected but that does not make it o.k. for him not to contact you. I suspect he will soon. Let him do the calling. You will eventually hear from him. Even men that are getting married get cold feet right before the wedding. Now imagine a man who you have not yet met you and the talk of marriage was bought up, he is getting more than cold feet now LOL. Laugh it off, he'll come around soon dear.
2006-07-19 06:35:54 · answer #1 · answered by NO♥NAME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In other words, are you asking what are the reasons the girl wouldn't hear from the guy after she apologized to him for being short and hanging up?
If so, it's because the guy is probably being to proud and holding a grudge like a spoiled child.
2006-07-19 06:23:54 · answer #2 · answered by 4XTrader 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you think that she is taking it way too far for an online relationship before even meeting her.
Here you are hoping for a piece of *** and she's already talking about marriage and babies.
2006-07-19 06:34:52 · answer #3 · answered by e1war 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because maybe he has come to his senses and realized that taking a relationship to talking marriage and kids is rather stupid before you have had an opportunity to meet the person, maybe?
2006-07-19 06:22:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit asking loser.
Thanks for the 2 points.
2006-07-19 06:21:58 · answer #5 · answered by tvb4prez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because the way you hung up on him sounds like you have something to hide and if you never met before how can he be sure enough to trust you
2006-07-19 06:25:43 · answer #6 · answered by rcrenzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably, give time.
It is on his priority, but he does not have a plan
and is seeking solitude for a moment so that he can think of to resolve issues
2006-07-19 08:06:26 · answer #7 · answered by StupendousMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..u dont even know this guy, so why are you getting so hung up on it? You've never met him. maybe he realized this and moved on, and you should too.
2006-07-19 06:27:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know, I would call her.
2006-07-19 06:21:27 · answer #9 · answered by mjcariati1971 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b/c he might be married
2006-07-19 06:22:00 · answer #10 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋