Is it ME?
2006-07-19 06:12:23 · 18 answers · asked by TJ H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No it is not you. Some guys are to coward to tell you to your face that they no longer like you or want to be with you. So they take the cowardly way out and just drop you. Keep your head up. He did not deserve you any way!
2006-07-19 06:17:17 · answer #1 · answered by mpriddy777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I thought only women did that! Am I the only honest person on this planet? Beam me up, Scotty, there's no intelligent life here.
Seriously, though, it's not you and it's not me. I can tell by their behavior that certain women plan to do that from the start, even before we've met. On online dating sites, I call them "lifers", because they're obviously going to be doing the same thing for the rest of their lives, never dating anyone more than once. Just remember, they're the pathetic ones, not you. You want something more from life and they're too ignorant to know there is more.
BTW, woodworkingmenace, where on earth do you find single women over 40 that don't play games? It can't be in the U.S.A.
2006-07-19 06:23:04 · answer #2 · answered by ConcernedCitizen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if your over 30, and guys dont get sex right away, then they will drop you and get some one else...
Women over 40 dont play a lot of games, like those of younger ages... (Probably they know the score, and figure they dont have much 'time', as the younger ones, think they have all the time in the World, until they are left alone on a saturday night, with no date).
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-07-19 06:17:25 · answer #3 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup it's you, either you're really bad at reading signals or you're ignoring them to stay in a relationship... most people will send you clear or obvious signals they aren't going to call back. Use good judgement and stop hoping, read a situation for what it really is and you'll be back in realiity in no time.
2006-07-19 06:24:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm well the ones of us that do generally see, feel or hear something we do not like. And the few of us guys that know how to read between the lines with the ladies know exactly what I'm saying ;)
2006-07-19 06:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people (not just guys) hate confrontation. If someone is ready to move on, they don't want arguments about why they shouldn't do it.
Females do exactly the same thing.
2006-07-19 06:36:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because everything IS okay, they just stop calling you!
2006-07-19 06:15:43 · answer #7 · answered by J. T. N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol i used to do that aloooot!!! i know i know imma asshole, but i was a lot younger too... listen i did it cuz i really wasnt into her at all from the start or i just lost intrest really quickly.. it takes a really smart funny, wity , sarcastic girl (like my trina) to hold me. maybe some advice..;. dont be too needy, and maybe be more fun to be wit.
2006-07-19 06:17:25 · answer #8 · answered by AUSTIN C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it's you.. If a guys pretending to be A-OK and they stop calling, it's because they simply lost intrest in you.. or they think your weird
2006-07-19 06:17:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naw, most guys are self-centered, selfish dogs. Don't blame yourself for the stupid things guys do, after all, we're men, not women.
2006-07-19 06:14:18 · answer #10 · answered by Velociraptor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋