How do shake my player image?

Question

well there is this girl I like. but she won't date me. She says its because I'm a player. Now this chick doesn't know much about my personal life. I am so far from a player its ridiculous. Im not bad looking. I think it is because I am so confident that women naturally assume I must be a dog. How do I shake this image. She is not the first girl I have had this problem with.

I swear. I am nothing, but a perfect gentlman. I think it make women suspicious. My roomate is the worst dog on the planet and girl won't leave him alone, and he not better looking. He makes less money and everything. I am starting to think girl want to be treated like hos. When you treat them to well they think its game.

Answer 1

Keep pursuing her it may take some time but she will get the point that you are into her that's what my man did and i finally gave in ( i thought he was a player) and if she doesn't give it up to right away and you stick around she will realize she judged you wrong hang in there and show her whats really up

Answer 2

u have 2 b, patient. prove 2 her that she isnt a gurl u would "play". then while ur w/ her prove to her that ur not that way at all. be attentive and respectful and sweet. soon, she'll loosen up. my ex-bf had that prob with me. after i got 2 know him betta, i found out he wasnt like that. (what killed "us" was the fact old habits die hard). just prove urself and b patient. i hope everything works out.

Answer 3

Just keep it real and DONT use Talk all Smooth like most Playas
Some girls like it but some dont

Answer 4

Try toning it down a bit when you talk to her. Just keep it real! lol

Answer 5

they are the ones who are guilty of making assumptions, not you. so it's their problem, not yours. be true to you and i'm sure someone will come along who'll appreciate your confidence and charm.

Answer 6

Tell her to listen to Jon B.'s "They Don't Know".

Answer 7

maybe it has sumthing to do wit ya "SWAGGER"...lol....if u no what im sayin