This guy asked me out yesterday, but he's going to college on August 20, 2 1/2 hours away. I'm going to be a junior next year. Should i go out w/ him, or at least give it a try?
2006-07-19 06:02:44 · 11 answers · asked by xo winter-angel xo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
umm u know there r collage parties and he might be cheating on u gurl
2006-07-19 06:07:36 · answer #1 · answered by ~Green eyes~ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Long distance relationship can work out for the best if BOTH of you are willing to make it work by putting in equal amount of effort. You seem hesistant so I would say no, do not go for it. You already seem discouraged about it all. When I was in high school I did not date b/c I did not want to just yet. I didn't want a b/f. I wanted to wait until I got to college b/c lets face it-high school relationships are merely a joke, nothing too serious. Not much student take it eriously, most girls do more than the guys so your feelings end up crushed anyway. I'm not saying all are but sometimes it does work out for the best and sometimes it does not. In most cases they do NOT. If I were you i'd wait until I graduate high school to start dating. Right now focus on getting those good grades to get you into college. Your b/f is an older guy, he is headed to college. Trust me, he will meet A LOT of women!!! You will then start to doubt your relationship which is a natural thing to do. All of us would. You will start to think 'what is he doing now, is he cheating, are girls hitting on him, will he give-in to temptation?' blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, you don't want to bobble your mind with all those stressing thoughts....so it's better you just wait. Tell him you'd like to remain friends for the meanwhile. Who knows, you may get accepted to his college then you can start dating ;) I'm glad I waited, I have the best b/f ever now. Patience is always good. Don't get into something you'll regret down the road. It's not worth the chance, you may end up getting hurt. You're young. Enjoy life. When yu get to college you'll notice how mature people have grown since high school. You know what they say about guys maturing much later than girls LOL. So, yeah-take your time dear. Good luck!
2006-07-19 06:10:42 · answer #2 · answered by NO♥NAME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a little old for a junior. Think about it. He's going to school with women two years older. He's going to readily think you are immature. (May not be the case) If you were finishing highschool, I'd say you have a chance, but your plans seem uncertain.
You are wise to question going out with him. Go by your gut feeling. Do you like him, know him, know his family? It's a roll of the dice.
Reject him a few times to see if he cares about you.
2006-07-19 06:10:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with him while he's here, then once he leaves stay friends, let him live his life and you live yours. its that simple. 2 1/2 hours doesnt seem like a lot but its still long distance and that almost never works. keep reminding yourself that he is a college guy after all.
2006-07-19 06:08:57 · answer #4 · answered by lorimtx2204 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and enjoy yourself, darling. You are just going out with him, aren't you, not like getting engaged or something. And if he turns out to be worth your while, you still have 33 days (including today) to live it up with him. That's 792 hours. I sense you are afraid of taking risks and losing, maybe of getting your heart broken. Don't be. I know it's easier said than done, but get in the habit of living today, not in the future. Not on what ifs, but on what is. Good luck.
2006-07-19 06:16:38 · answer #5 · answered by suki's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what kind of guy he is and what you can handle. If you think that you both could handle the distance while staying true to one another, then I say go for it.
2006-07-19 06:10:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how well do you know him? Is he someone you just met...than no, more than likely he is looking for that last summer fling before college. If he's a good friends, than it might be a possibility.
2006-07-19 06:07:34 · answer #7 · answered by Holly p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd give it a try. I mean he isn't that much older then you. But be were it is a long distance, mabey not that long a distance but it will be close to impossible to see him everyday. But I would still say give it a try.
2006-07-19 06:06:36 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you should NOT go out with him. its the best TRUST me. guys that come to college with gfs in hs-- they DO cheat on them, and everyone noes abt it, and when you come to visit him...no one will tell you. ppl will noe abt you, but will think youre naieve for going out with him. your best bet is to be his friends so you can visit him, hang out at his college and what evr but do not go out with him...besides...everyone noes that they DO NOT enter college with in a relationship. i've personally heard ppl say that they regretted it...and i cant think of any time it worked out successfully.
2006-07-19 06:09:50 · answer #9 · answered by beautiful is a phase 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, would be a waste of your time.
2006-07-19 06:05:13 · answer #10 · answered by nolyad69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋